The Path Forward Forum

Originally posted by: Guest on Oct 23, 2007, 10:12pm

Hi everyone! I hope everyone is doing their best to stay clear of the Narcissists. Since the Narcissist hung up on me three months ago never to be heard from again i am proud to say I have not tried to initiate contact with him. It's hard but there are many benefits to staying away.
*I am seeing things more clearly with him not around.
*I am not giving him the satisfaction of a phonecall.
*I am not rewarding bad behaviour.

Originally posted by: kate on Nov 29, 2007, 8:03pm

Hello Everyone,

I've just finished Ella's book which I found extremely interesting.

Five weeks ago my 2 year relationship ended and it had been very difficult for one year but I tried everything to make it work.

I wasn't aware of the traits of a Narcissist until the relationship ended abruptly and I tried to seek closure by myself. I cannot express how after the split it suddenly dawned on me that I had been used and abused. Is love really that blind???

Originally posted by: sally on Aug 31, 2007, 1:21pm

Hello everyone!
I have recently come across this website and have found your posts to be very helpful. I have certainly related to many of your experiences, however my situation is different. I am not the girlfriend or wife of a narcissist, but have been working with a young, handsome narcissistic man for several years. Although the relationship is less severe, I have experienced many of the same situations and emotional turmoil that you all have.

Originally posted by: Guest on Sept 25, 2007, 1:08pm

I'm really struggling with the pain of the suspected N disapearing from my life. Do you think they ever regret leaving? Or are they not capable of missing you? Any insight would help...

Originally posted by: Guest on Oct 19, 2007, 1:51am

HI everyone. I hear alot of talk about Narcissists coming back after they've dumped you. My question is are they ever completely done with us or are we always in their back up plan???

Originally posted by: Guest on Oct 9, 2007, 5:42pm

I find myself constantly questioning whether he is an N even though all the information is there. Is this natural? I keep thinking "Maybe I'm just trying to make myself feel better about being dumped?" Any insight???

Originally posted by: Sharon1970star on Feb 17, 2008, 1:09pm