How can I help my daughter to see her bf's true colours?
My 19 year old daughter has been madly (!) in love with a 22 year old narc for nearly 2 years. He bowled her over from day 1 and charmed me and my husband too. Only my son (17) saw through him immediately, but we didn't believe him!
This N even told me straight out once that he can be narcissistic and that he doesn't like being ignored! This got me reading on the subject as by this stage, there were quite a few alarm bells ringing...
Our only saving grace is that it is a LDR-however he is in almost constant contact with her every day and whenever he comes to stay (which is often), it is chaotic and difficult to get him to stick to agreed on dates.He really makes himself at home too, overly so!