All About Him Forum

I followed all the rules, abided by our agreements, kept my son out of it. He broke all the rules, ignored our agreement, bad mouthed me to my son, put my son right in the middle of everything. So my son (9) met with his law guardian two days before our divorce trial date and lied to him! He told the law guardian exactly what daddy had been practicing since June. Daddy never says anything bad about mommy, never talks about the divorce, I want equal time with mommy and daddy, and then goes on to bad mouth his grandparents (my parents).

So it has officially been over a year with this man. I have shared several stories on this forum and each time I seem to get a little stronger.

A friend I met on another forum invited me here to this site, she said it was really good and alot of special people here that listen and give good advice and just in general help to pull you up by the bootstrings when you need it.

The sun is shining and it is starting to warm up.

Snow is melting and cant wait until spring!!!!

So it Valentine's Day and almost 7:00 where I live and I haven't heard a word from my Narc. Despite the fact I sent him a card, left him a text and a message. He knows it's killing me and he doesn't care. I plan to go NC, but he has no idea yet so that makes it even worse. My stomach aches, I can't eat, and I just want to go to sleep. How can he do this, again! Anybody else feel like me? Most of you have the problem that they're calling and you want the strength to ignore them. I'm not there yet and is sucks!!!!

Im new with this and would like some advice to see if I am really dating an N. I met my boyfriend through a friend about 31/2 years ago after a bad divorce. He swept me off my feet, tying up my weekends so I would only be with him, sending me flowers to work. He lived out of state then where I lived, but when I finally decided to move out on my own in an apartment, he moved also to the same state and same apartment complex.We ended up living together He was on workers comp and was home all day. He respected me that I had to work and would go to bed with me and get up every morning and make me breakfast.

Please read the below, i cant stress this enough, the link and coincidence is too much. You will be amazed that most of the husband/ bf/ partners etc we are saying here their birthday is on August, in other words born to be a leo. If not, i am VERY sure, some parts of his birth chart would contain some leo element, trust me on that, i will show it to you. This is not about supertisious or what.

You will find this familiar:

Hi i am new to this site thank god i found this site, Its a GOD SEND!!! I was with my Narc for 13 years, I am nearly on a month NC, I have my good and bad days, But would like to know this did any of your narcs make you do sexually disgusting things or force you to have sex with them? I know its a touchy subject, My ex did, He had a porn addiction as well, Made me feel so bad, I would just like to say as well thank god am not alone i thought i was, Am in Liverpool UK, And there are no sites in the Uk that offer this sort of help and give advice like this,xx

i feel like im going mad , my ex is going around slating me and saying stuff that isnt true
yet i cant stop thinking about him i find myself just wishing i could talk to him yet in the same breath i dont want to
when does this ever stop ??????
does it ever stop ?????
i feel angry at my self for allowing him to affect me yet i also understand that
it wasnt me it was him and thats what they do
i dont want to go back ...............
i just want to know how to take small steps to move on carry on .........he is in my head all the time

i try so hard to keep going but sometimes i just want to give up
what hurts the most is my feelings and love was real
yet i guess his just wasnt !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm very confused and don't know if I'm dealing with a Narcissist, but I do know that I have a very creepy feeling about this person and the only reason I've remained on friendly terms is down to the - charm.

My neighbour is very well mannered and charming and at times kind of refreshing with her straight talk.
However, I notice that I only hear from her when she wants something and she always wants something.