All About Him Forum

The All About Him Forum is specifically for newcomers just beginning to understand why narcissists behave the way they do and why they are incapable of genuine love. This forum is focused on working the first three steps to recovering from a narcissist.

1 – Understand It
2 – Get It Out
3 – No Contact

The first three steps often overlap and many of you may find yourself going back and forth between them. This is understandable and perfectly acceptable. No one should beat themselves up for having to repeat a step. "No Contact" often takes several repeated attempts. We must remember, it is about PROGRESS, not PERFECTION. We must celebrate our progress and encourage one another to keep pushing forward.

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Sticky: WELCOME NEWCOMERS/Forum Guidelines
by Goldie » May 14, 2012 - 2:34am
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by Erica
June 23, 2017 - 11:31am
Sticky: NARCISSIST RECOVERY SUPPORT
by Goldie » January 19, 2012 - 6:45am
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by truthnow
February 6, 2016 - 7:23am
Sticky: Scheduling a One on One with Goldie. Narcissist Relationship Support
by Goldie » July 13, 2015 - 6:20pm
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by Goldie
January 24, 2016 - 12:43pm
Sticky: RECOVERY LINKS & RESOURCES
by Journey » June 8, 2013 - 8:02pm
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by Janie53
July 19, 2014 - 8:56am
Sticky: STEPS 1-3 FORUM DESCRIPTION
by Lisa E. Scott » April 9, 2011 - 1:20pm
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by Lisa E. Scott
December 26, 2013 - 11:41am
Why do narcissists marry so quickly during the luring phase? (Page: 1, 2)
by Sunafterrain » August 4, 2011 - 5:47pm
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by Keisha Brooks
July 20, 2017 - 10:35pm
stealing my personality
by robinroberg » July 9, 2013 - 12:16pm
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by allaboutmenow
July 17, 2017 - 5:04pm
Breakups and Revenge
by 01stworldview » July 16, 2017 - 7:53pm
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by 01stworldview
July 16, 2017 - 7:53pm
Abandoned while pregnant
by confused83 » November 6, 2012 - 11:30am
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by Alegria17
July 14, 2017 - 2:00pm
Exposing the narcissist to all of his friends/family/new relationship
by horizons » August 9, 2011 - 4:36am
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by goal_anti_narc_...
July 14, 2017 - 4:04am
My Narcissist Boyfriend's Mentality
by kavya » July 8, 2017 - 1:08am
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by kavya
July 8, 2017 - 1:08am
Something to Make a Movie About
by my_realization » June 22, 2017 - 2:08am
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by transcend
July 3, 2017 - 11:27pm
I really want to tell my story. But its a long one.
by Erica » June 23, 2017 - 3:26pm
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by transcend
June 24, 2017 - 8:22am
Narcissist leaving you
by kavya » May 19, 2017 - 4:18am
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by kavya
June 22, 2017 - 1:44am
Passive Aggressive Rage
by eg12345 » June 5, 2017 - 4:14pm
1
by Lisa E. Scott
June 11, 2017 - 12:50pm
New learning
by Fed up » June 9, 2017 - 2:54pm
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by Lisa E. Scott
June 11, 2017 - 12:46pm
4 Years Together
by my_realization » May 23, 2017 - 12:36am
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by Lisa E. Scott
May 28, 2017 - 11:43pm
4 Years Together
by my_realization » May 23, 2017 - 12:36am
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by my_realization
May 23, 2017 - 12:36am
obsessing
by Lily1 » May 14, 2017 - 7:27am
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by Lisa E. Scott
May 20, 2017 - 12:44pm
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by bethlor2013 » May 5, 2017 - 8:18pm
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by bethlor2013
May 11, 2017 - 2:52am
Do I let the narc see my boy on his birthday after I have cancelled all visitation until I go through solicitor?
by Lily1 » April 29, 2017 - 2:32pm
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by Lily1
May 1, 2017 - 1:40am
Don't be fooled, the NARC'S are setting up their "Winter Nests." (Page: 1, 2, 3)
by Goldie » October 14, 2011 - 1:00pm
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by sweethabanero
April 28, 2017 - 8:28pm
My Ex narc, the victimized doppelganger
by sweethabanero » April 28, 2017 - 8:11pm
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by sweethabanero
April 28, 2017 - 8:11pm
Another Success Story Here On The Path Forward
by Goldie » April 24, 2017 - 11:19am
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by Goldie
April 24, 2017 - 11:19am
Guilt & Shame While With Or After A Narcissist
by Goldie » April 23, 2017 - 5:43pm
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by Goldie
April 23, 2017 - 5:43pm
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