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How he cares for her

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#1 Sep 6 - 11PM
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How he cares for her

I was thinking, what if he told me about the new woman to give me the reason why he hadn't called me?

What happened was after not talking for a couple weeks and him getting with her (right after he was with me), I said to him that I didn't know why he isn't talking to me now but that I wish him the best. Then he apologised for not calling and said how he cares enormously for her. I didn't bite. I just remained friendly rather than cry to him, though I cried all the time on my own. A couple weeks later he was asking me personal questions about my current sex life and then when I said I'd call him, because I didn't know what he was on about, he was rude and just said no. Then he didn't talk to me for a few months when he teased me then ignored me again.

By the way, I had answered his personal question and then he pressed it again and I answered again and he tried again at which point I thought I'd call him to try to understand what was happening so I told him I'd call him later that night and that's when he said no, but he waited 5 hours to say no. It was like he had been trying to get me to say something more, like to actually say how I still wanted him and that's why I hadn't been with anyone else yet. I guess it was an ego stroke he was after.

So maybe it was just he met someone really good and wanted to respect her and not make her jealous by talking to me so he quit. Then maybe it wasn't going so well with her so he asked me those questions and she saw or something so he then stopped that.

I'm really confused. I will talk to my psychologist about it on Monday. Hurt so much.

Please don't yell at me, this is a genuine thought I have been thinking.

Sep 13 - 5AM
Winter
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Letting go

Sep 13 - 10AM (Reply to #98)
Jenna H
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Winter

Sep 11 - 5AM
Deidre99
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I read through the posts

Sep 11 - 3PM (Reply to #82)
letting go
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Thanks. I believe that too. I

Sep 11 - 4PM (Reply to #83)
GracefullyFree
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Letting Go

Sep 12 - 1AM (Reply to #85)
letting go
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I don't know what to say. I'm

Sep 12 - 4AM (Reply to #89)
neverlookback
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you are giving your

Sep 12 - 4AM (Reply to #90)
letting go
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It's funny. I do like myself

Sep 12 - 6AM (Reply to #91)
lostmyself
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I think

Sep 12 - 3PM (Reply to #92)
letting go
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When he ended it with me he

Sep 12 - 3PM (Reply to #93)
letting go
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Also, even if that is true

Sep 12 - 4PM (Reply to #94)
lostmyself
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he's rude and mean

Sep 12 - 4PM (Reply to #95)
letting go
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After he asked me those

Sep 12 - 4PM (Reply to #96)
lostmyself
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exactly

Sep 12 - 1AM (Reply to #86)
GracefullyFree
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Letting Go

Sep 12 - 3AM (Reply to #87)
letting go
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It is scary. I still have

Sep 12 - 9AM (Reply to #88)
Alissa
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Letting go, did you make a

Sep 11 - 4PM (Reply to #84)
IncognitoBurrito
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Some

Sep 9 - 10AM
Journey
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All you keep doing is making

Journey on...

Sep 10 - 4PM (Reply to #74)
letting go
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I am having trouble to see

Sep 10 - 5PM (Reply to #75)
Journey
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I understand that you are

Journey on...

Sep 10 - 10PM (Reply to #76)
letting go
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I guess I am really

Sep 11 - 4AM (Reply to #80)
neverlookback
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his age has nothing to do with why this happened

Sep 11 - 3AM (Reply to #77)
Hunter
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Letting Go

Sep 11 - 3AM (Reply to #78)
letting go
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I do live my life. I still

Sep 11 - 4AM (Reply to #79)
Hunter
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What you are experiencing is

Sep 8 - 10AM
Very happy girl
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Think different

Sep 7 - 8PM
virgoluv
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ok I fully understand now

Sep 7 - 11AM
Done sourcing
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Letting go, you need to be on

Sep 7 - 3PM (Reply to #70)
letting go
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Thank you. I have a note full