Did your narc refuse intimacy with you?
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Jul 10 - 10PM
Did your narc refuse intimacy with you?
Mine did.He was actually indifferent to it from the very beginning. Then it got less. Then nothing. He had 5 or 6 different excuses he used over time, none of them having anything to do with each other. I sat him down and said "just tell me,what is it? You know i love you and we can work problems out together if your honest.nope. He said "yes i do desire you" but then he'd give his latest excuse. It was the most insulting,degrading thing ive ever been through with a man (and beleive me ive been degraded in different ways, but this is true rejection for me).
I found porno magazines in his apt one day, so i know he wasnt gay.I guess he was the cerebral type.Has anyone been through this too?
Mine sure did
Reddley
Intimacy yes...sex no..m
pasta=entrapment
Porn - Yep been there done that
NO
Sexual Orientation
Dinner = Trap
doing something nice + disgust
In the first few months
Journey on...
"felt objectified by my eagerness"
Journey, I could have written your post
Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.' --Mary Anne Radmache
what about the other kind of sexual relationship with an N?
Yes me too, Striving
Sex was amazing...
Yes
Ditto
they're sure strange and complicated
Lack of intellectual/emotional intimacy
Yes and yes..sadly. Like he
In reading through these
deidre Similiar
I'm so glad you pressed
Unbelievable
sAME HERE
Mind did. He intentionally
really
Really
Yupp
Yes
Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.' --Mary Anne Radmache