This is the true "NARC" holiday - they put that mask on so tight and hook you right on in on that day! I truly believe it's the day they seal their evil deal with you without your knowing. extra extra extra charm.
I don't miss valentines - he would buy me a gift and then TELL me what he wanted which would cost me hundreds of dollars. I am good.
Still hurting, it's a new year, the first V-day you won't have to concern yourself with what N will do or not do, I could care less what N does, I care about what I am going to do, I have never connected V-day to romance, my sis is my number #1 Valentine, as always as she is my best friend as well, we will do what we always do, exchange expressions of our love and friendship for one another, I also have this tradition with my niece and a few other friends, no romantic interest at this point, I'm ok with that as well, I'd rather have none than a FAKE, PHONEY, PRETEND Valentine hovering around me, I hope NOT to get anything from him, I'd be insulted in fact, ironic, a fake love sending something romantic in nature and doesn't know what love or romance is, I wouldn't accept it if he so happens to attempt such a stunt, and hope there is no hover attempt as well, recovering quite nicely and peacefully from the Nonhuman, make a new tradition, about you, for you, or for someone you love, doesn't need to be a man nor romantic in nature, best wishes!
My wank stain narc never gave me anything for valantines day , He asked me after a long lecture on how the day was a captilist ploy if i wanted anything , he had such a sneer on his smug face i just said "no" . And he didnt get me anything , not even a card . I felt like sh*t that day . So do i feel sad about the day ? its a difficult one because im glad i never have to feel so down again but on the other hand im bummed that im going to be alone .
I think its important to point out that the narc loves holidays to get intouch . On new year my narc came out for a hover so can we get prepared for the unexpected tomorrow , its just another day really where NC still stands .xx
This guy was really sweet on V Day. A gorgeous dozen or roses would arrive, or he would come by with something nice. I remember always being shocked because he was just so blue collar and an ordinary guy, but he picked out the prettiest things. It's funny, I felt I finally met someone who treated me as I deserved to be treated, so if this was all a lie, and I don't think all of it was, but some of it was, then I never got treated the way I feel I deserve to begin with. So these things go much deeper than what these men did or said or lied about. It just messes with your whole sense of who you are and what others think of you and your beliefs about relationships and love.
you do make me laugh! 'wank stain narc'- classic,lol. Exactly, i would not appreciate a 'anon' card either. Last year i got a card, the words said it all ,
looking back. I still feel that i cant post his words on here as i scared he will be looking!) Anyway, theywere fake wordsand he just spilled the beans on what he was about to do. These words meant he was leaving but he would always want me for supply. :) Idiot.
Im sure i will get somthing tomorrow but using his other object as a way of trying to get at me. Hey ho, bring it on.:)
The ex-Psych professor HATED Valentine's Day. He said his favorite holiday was Halloween;he devoutly watched the "Treehouse of Horror" episodes of The Simpsons.
Only in my junior year, while I was dating (AND he had his long-distance girlfriend in LA whom he went to meet for Thanksgiving) did I receive an anonymous birthday card, a dozen roses, and chocolates. What was funny in its own bizarre way is that the birthday card has an angry little boy holding a flower on it. That characterizes the ex-P perfectly... an angry little boy... a picture is worth a thousand words...
It only happened ONCE.
Valentines is their Holiday
Nope, not sad at all....
stay~strong
My wank stain narc never
It was different here
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Anon card, flowers, chocolates