It really is annoying when people around me try to give their advice on my situation. They say trite comments, like just move on; he clearly has. I AM moving on and I don't give a crap what he is doing but I still have to deal with the wreakage he left behind. I'm not moping around and pining for him. I am pissed off and doing the best I can every day to process what happened. I have a right to my feelings and finally I am actually feeling them. Why do people think I should just act like nothing happened? WTF? I'm not just going to jump into another lame relationship. I have a lot of things to do for me right now. Every day I realize something else that I haven't taken the time for in the past 3.5 years because all time and effort was focused on him. I am not falling apart but this was a huge deal and if I break down once in awhile that's my business. I AM ALLOWED TO FEEL HOW EVER I FEEL!!!!!