Nobody Understands

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#1 Apr 30 - 9AM
BtrflyGrl
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Nobody Understands

It really is annoying when people around me try to give their advice on my situation. They say trite comments, like just move on; he clearly has. I AM moving on and I don't give a crap what he is doing but I still have to deal with the wreakage he left behind. I'm not moping around and pining for him. I am pissed off and doing the best I can every day to process what happened. I have a right to my feelings and finally I am actually feeling them. Why do people think I should just act like nothing happened? WTF? I'm not just going to jump into another lame relationship. I have a lot of things to do for me right now. Every day I realize something else that I haven't taken the time for in the past 3.5 years because all time and effort was focused on him. I am not falling apart but this was a huge deal and if I break down once in awhile that's my business. I AM ALLOWED TO FEEL HOW EVER I FEEL!!!!!

May 1 - 11PM
MissK
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I agree with you Btrflygrl.

May 2 - 12AM (Reply to #29)
BtrflyGrl
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Thank you MissK

May 1 - 4PM
Reason2Believe
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One less bell to answer

May 1 - 4PM (Reply to #24)
BtrflyGrl
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I love that song

May 1 - 8PM (Reply to #25)
Reason2Believe
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I'm caught in a trap....

May 1 - 11PM (Reply to #26)
MeAgain
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I am right there with you.

May 2 - 5AM (Reply to #27)
Reason2Believe
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You can do better

May 1 - 8AM
Deestarr
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Btrfly girl

May 1 - 9PM (Reply to #22)
Movingforwardnow
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The other members who have posted are right,

May 1 - 9PM (Reply to #21)
Movingforwardnow
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sorry it posted several times

May 1 - 9PM (Reply to #20)
Movingforwardnow
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The other members who have posted are right,

May 1 - 7AM
no more an echo
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it takes time to heal

May 1 - 7AM
wsh
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How many people

Apr 30 - 11AM
Sparrow
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People are unable to

Apr 30 - 11AM
Janie53
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Btfly

Apr 30 - 10AM
DJ
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I understand...

Apr 30 - 10AM
Wallace
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BtrflyGrl

Apr 30 - 10AM
Deidre99
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I read a book recently that

Apr 30 - 9AM
missym
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Yes, you are allowed - and

Apr 30 - 9AM
Hunter
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If they do t want to listen

Apr 30 - 10AM (Reply to #10)
BtrflyGrl
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Thank you for listening. I

Apr 30 - 9AM
BtrflyGrl
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And another thing...

Apr 30 - 10AM (Reply to #2)
BtrflyGrl
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For the record, just because

May 1 - 5AM (Reply to #8)
eyeswideopen35
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BtrflyGrl

Apr 30 - 11AM (Reply to #3)
DJ
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OMG!

Apr 30 - 11AM (Reply to #4)
BtrflyGrl
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Haha DJ - I think the same

May 1 - 9PM (Reply to #7)
Cabo
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New Supply

May 1 - 9PM (Reply to #6)
Cabo
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New Supply

May 1 - 4AM (Reply to #5)
bluegirl
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I found that people were