He is coming whether I am there or not.... apparently to see people he doesn't care about. But I am sure to be as charming as possible and get some supply, even if it is from gay women....since no one can deny his looks and charm!
So I will deny him an audience.
He, of course, just texted saying he was running late. Translation "I really, really don't care about you, so I'm going to be late. But I still want just enough time there for you to see what you are missing!"
I responded saying I was not coming in today. Decided to get my watch fixed and have lunch with a friend.
Sorry, but why are you engaging him like this?? He IS one big mind F***er. And apparently it worked, it made you think about it, a lot, probably all day. He loves that he was on your mind all day long, knowing you were trying to dissect his Narc-speak. Couldn't get any straight answers?? That'll be the day anybody gets straight answers from and N.
Do you think he cares the lengths you went to in order to accomodate him in the past, etc? All that is erased in an N's brain. The only history they recall is sh** to use against you. Period.
Who cares wtf he meant by it all? Ignore. You are not available. If he has company business, he should clearly state his intentions in an e-mail, otherwise, forget it.
I know how hard this is since you have to work with him, but this can be easier for you if you stick to NC as much as possible.
"are you around at 12:30 tomorrow? I have a 2pm meeting in your area and want to touch base with you quickly"
"I am blowing through your area at 12:30 and will stop by the company whether you are there are not."
Just checking to see if you're still willing to let me jerk you around a bit.Doesn't really matter tho-there are plenty of other source of supp....er, fish..in the sea. :)
crazy isn't it?
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