More Narcspeak, but I think I'm getting better at this.
More Narcspeak, but I think I'm getting better at this.
More confusion from a confusing man.
So I get three emails and three vmails from his yesterday.
"are you around at 12:30 tomorrow? I have a 2pm meeting in your area and want to touch base with you quickly"
"I am blowing through your area at 12:30 and will stop by the company whether you are there are not."
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Ok, so he attempts to contact me 6 times in one day to try to see me, but not really meet with me. He wants to see me, but he doesn't really want to. He would stop by the company even if I'm not there...even though he has no friends there and even though he respects no one there.
So why is he coming?
I called him back at the end of the day and said
- are you coming because you want to meet with me? do you need to talk about something specific? did you want to go to lunch and talk because I'll be coming straight from a meeting and won't have time to eat before 12:30.
Couldn't get any straight answers from him.
So i emailed later, "I used to fly across country to see you when you wanted to see me... and now we are minutes away, but all I get is a blow through or drive by shooting, and you can't even come out and say that you would like to talk or see me? If you stopping by because you actually want to see me, please let me know"
Anyway.... never heard back.... I don't expect to...cause lord knows, once he has DD me, he can't actually admit that he misses me or would like to see me. Needless to say, I won't be showing up at work... what a contrast to the days where I would fly across country within a week of him saying that he would like to see me or talk.
I'm thinking that his real reason for coming is to:
- look great
- flash that incredible smile
- be charming and sweet very loudly to everyone in the office to show how wonderful he is.
- all for me to witness and drive me further into the crazy farm.
Because he has NO relationship with ANYONE else at the company, except for me. he doesn't even like them (behind closed doors, or at least that is what he tells me)
He never came
loveofmylife
I'm a believer
loveof...
Stay strong, loveofmylife....
Thanks Monica
Careful about how you think about things with your N
Very good points Wallaby
Hang in there... as you are
Better Off
Oh come on... she's just one
Available people
just an opinion, but I
Better Off
loveofmylife
Therapist
loveofmylife
Trauma counselor
loveofmylife
Please don't think of it as
better off is absolutely
Ummm... why did you
Dinner
Why?????
Foolmeonce...you are right on target!!!
Another control tactic - "I didn't really mean to call you"
I would be talking with my xN/P on the phone...
OMG Foolmeonce
believe it!
"touch base"