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#1 Sep 25 - 11PM
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malloryforest

just remember - although the pull will be VERY STRONG to yell and engage with him this weekend - DO NOT. DO NOT!!

Do you remember posting this?
http://www.lisaescott.com/forum/2009/05/16/honest-growth-or-manipulation

And what did you learn the weeks after that?

HE HAS NO INTENTION OF BEING FAIR.

You're a robot - you have ONE LINE TO HIM. I will be happy to talk to you with my lawyer present. Do NOT let him get you alone this weekend, do NOT let him wear you do, do NOT let him piss you off, NOTHING - I repeat NOTHING!!! NO REACTIONS - ONE LINE.

Do NOT GET SUCKED INTO THE EVIL VORTEX THAT IS HIM AGAIN.

Both your therapist and I believe he's a sociopath so nothing you say will stop him, get through to him or really hurt him NO MATTER WHAT HE SAYS OR HOW HE ACTS.

I will post the characteristics of a sociopath on a separate thread tonite - read them, remember them.

Your children are depending on you.

big hug

Sep 26 - 10AM
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Thank you Barbara

Thank you Barbara, I will be a complete robot until Tuesday morning. I will not let him have any room to engage with me. You are right, no matter what I said, it wouldn't mean a thing. It is funny, I am have these interesting dreams. In my dreams I confront him. He doesn't react but at least I am getting it all out. I wake up a little more cleansed. Better to confront the sicko in my dreams than in real life. Went to the local police and let them know of the situation. They called the police in his area and he got a visit. I had no idea they were going to alert his police, but I am glad I did. At least he has had some other warning that the police near my house have been alerted to his behavior. Makes me feel a little safer. Lawyer told him he can no longer communicate with me by email unless it is about the children. He already broke it a couple of times, but the emails have been nothing the last couple of days. Thank you for your support.