From Love to Obsession:????
From Love to Obsession:????
This is may cause some controversy but i have had a need to find out more about our obsessive and intrusive thoughts and how they affect our ability to move forward. In doing some research into this topic i have come across a few articles that deal with the issue of misplaced love for obsession. I look at this in context to our realtionship with the Narcissist.
We know we are all victims of a horrible relationship involving a Narcissist. We know that what happened to us if very real and deserves the up most validation. However, Research studies have shown that if we can not resolve and issues within our minds within 15 minutes; it is unlikly that it will ever be resolved. So why do we continue?
This is something that concerns; Do we get to a point after D&D that we replace the image of what was once Love for the Narcissist to one of dangerous obsession. We all experience obsessive thoughts and we know this is normal. But when does the normal become not so normal? When do we look at our behaviors and actions and have to face the fact that we must take some accountability for thoughts, actions and our future recovery. We are victims and this will never change. Its about what we do in the aftermath that determines our life and our future. If our thought consume us or lead us to destructive behavior is this healthy? Is this recovery?
Just wondered if any one has questioned this as this has been a fear that i am trying to address right now in my life...Thanks everyone. xoxoxo
You are all so wonderful! I
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You're doing a great job here!
P.S. Betty
being stuck or normal processing?
This article is relevant to
Never ever judged my
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The second guessing
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I don't agree with the 15
Thank you for the post and
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Be Good to Yourself, Betty!
Thanks for that Chickadee..I
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This is a very interesting
I agree with the analogy
The time line has to be
Peace. J
obsession
Normal Obsession
Awesome Kelly, love this.
I think the obsessive
Scoop
Cognitive dissonance
Thoughts about obsession
Thank you so much Janine, I
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Betty
almostlydia
Thank you for that. Your so
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Obsession
"Research studies have shown
"Research studies have shown
Im so sorry Staying i didnt
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