Hope he's on the top of the WISH HE WAS DEAD list?
Just goes to show us all, if it can happen to someone
like Sandra Bullock, then it's no small surprise it
can happen to any of us!
Way to go Sandra! DD the DUD!
She Should See Him for the Manipulative Bastard That He Is
The part that really gets me is when he said "do not judge Sandy for the things I have done" Judge her for what? It never once crossed my mind to judge her for his screwing a bunch of tatooed jump-offs. Also, him saying a huge hole was left in his heart because he did not have the baby around to hold. This is true narc behavior at its best; always about them "me me me me me me". What about the huge hole he left in Sandra's heart? I know she is hurt and we are praying for her. I am so glad she got her new baby. However, she needs to get this manipulative bastard out of her life at the speed of lighten.
Right, missyjade...and it gulls me that apparently, this adoption was a long process dating back a couple of years, so of course he was screwing around all this time with that knowledge!!!
I am so glad for her that she will have this precious child in her life, minus the giant man-child who tried to destroy her.
As always, they're only sorry WHEN THEY GET CAUGHT! His words are soooo typical, puke, puke puke!
wow Jesse, you nasty control freak....feigning control when you no longer have any!!...gee...i wonder if he 'let' her find out about what a piece of shit he is.....
Jesse James this week: "My whole life has been full of hard decisions. My decision to let my wife end our marriage, and continue the adoption of Louis on her own, has been the hardest."
Did he just say, "LET"?????
http://www.nypost.com/p/pagesix/sad_sandra_Q0lBunAYXWH7cJ6yobvfxO
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Moving Forward: Coaching for Victims Pathologicals
Feelings buried alive never die. - Alice Miller
http://www.nydailynews.com/gossip/2010/04/13/2010-04-13_jesse_james_fifth_alleged_mistress_merilee_gerth_sued_him_for_sexual_harassment_.html
don't speak to her, she's crazy
she's obsessed with me
you've been warned
stay away from my new wife/gf/friend
if you say anything I will make your life hell
if you speak the truth about what I did - I will smear you for the rest of your life
you're a liar/ she's a liar
Now a victim calls classic Pathological Jesse James on the carpet!! AMEN!!!
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Moving Forward: Coaching for Victims Pathologicals
Feelings buried alive never die. - Alice Miller
jesse had the infamous couch removed in the wee hours a week ago... BUSTED!
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Repetition does not transform a lie into the truth. - Franklin D. Roosevelt
Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals
Well, if Sandra won't take him back, what's the point of trying to fix himself???? lol
http://www.eonline.com/uberblog/b174872_jesse_james_pulls_plug_on.html
http://www.nypost.com/p/news/national/angry_jesse_flees_sex_rehab_dANdWpgeq2RMgKMcj4a0pI
right on! If his HOOVER MANUEVER didn't work, why bother!
YOU GO SANDRA - dump his Narc derriere on the nearest curb!
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Repetition does not transform a lie into the truth. - Franklin D. Roosevelt
Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals
Has anyone noticed that in the pics of Sandra and the f**tard-how everyone else in the photo is looking at her, and HE is always playing to the camera,as if she isn't even there? Think he might be....N ? :)
I think the difference between someone getting supply from an animal and those that really love their animals is sacrifice. Yes, those of us (me included) love the affection and adoration that animals show us in return for our kindness and caring. But those of us who really love our animals do things for them ...even when it inconveniences us. Very similar to how a parent loves a child. For instance, I work during the day all week and rarely schedule social events during the workday evenings because it's unfair to my dog who's home all day waiting for his evening walk. Do I miss out on social experiences because of this? Yes. But the dog is my responsibilitiy and I care about his welfare, so I sacrifice for him. And it brings me great pleasure to see him happy and getting the exercise he needs every night. And my cat, well he LOVES that stinky canned food, so despite the offense to my nose, I dish it out nightly because it makes him happy.
Narcs who claim to love animals, I would guess, just take what they can from them (admiration, affection, etc.) and don't give back to them. My 1st N claimed to love, love, love his two kitties (over the top display of affection that I've never seen a man show toward animals). But he often referred to them as his "accent cats" (because their all black coats were a striking contrast to his decor) and he didn't clean their litter box for weeks. So he did little "for them" and he took all the attention they gave happily.
My second N, well he may actually be a sociopath (or at least sociopathic). He hated my dog because the dog required attention--something he wasn't willing to relinguish. He needed 100% of my attention and either sulked or threw a fit if the dog wanted anything from me. Such a putz.
ExN absolutely loved the dog he bought for our dd, I think more than dd. When he wanted the dogs' attention, he would say, "Come here, son". But if he was mad at his "beloved son", he'd kick him across the room!
Been swamped at work last few days and just back to this site. Read this and LMAO. Thanks NN - nice to know some thing never change -like your sense of humor.
I think it's unfair to say that narcs don't change - with every relationship they learn a little more about how to manipulate and control and what they should do in the future to ensure the next source doesn't catch on so quickly - they do change and rehab and therapy just enables them to become even more evil.
sure Narcs change... into something different with every single relationship...
http://www.lisaescott.com/2009/09/21/narcissists-ability-become-different-person
you can't REHAB what was never HABILITATED in the first place - the only thing REHAB teaches a Narc is how to be sneakier...
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The world is a dangerous place, not only because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing. - Albert Einstein
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no hard and fast rules to that....mine CLAIMED to love animals...but kidnapped one of my dogs and threatend to throw him out of the car onto the freeway if i didn't pay drug money ransom....and he murdered my most beloved dog, BEN....smothered him to death for SPITE....
none of them really love ANYONE OR ANYTHING...but some get supply from a pet i think....
It makes me so sad when u mention your dog's death. I'm so sorry. I love dogs so much-i wouldn't know what to do if my exN killed my dog. Sad to say, I probably would have shot my exN as I was a sharp shooter in the military 20 yrs ago. Gosh, I hope my anger stage leaves me soon.
dogs don't talk back... that's not love... that's just supply...
dogs can't snitch on them either!
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The world is a dangerous place, not only because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing. - Albert Einstein
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Don't know exactly how the original post got off topic about dogs and animals, but since this was addressed I thought I would add something about animals too, as my Narc/Psycho BF likes dogs and cats which does not tell anything about his past hx of violence towards people!
A 'Narc' is not usually dangerous to animals so far as I know. Animals give unconditional 'supply' which I'm pretty sure probably appeals to a narcissist...I mean NO one greets you in such an utterly happy way, jumping up and down, wagging their tail and kissing you all over... like a dog! And cats will curl up in your lap and purr and give affection too. I bet some Narcs actually dream of EVERYONE doing this at the very sight of them! HA!
It is sometimes a sociopath or psychopath who may show abusive behavior towards animals. Although even THEY can 'like' animals and not harm them. Go figure! It is reported that even Ted Bundy liked animals and did not like anyone who didn't like them. (and he was a notorious serial killer) GO figure!!!
But I DO think when a person can harm or kill an animal it is an indicator to the possibility that they may have greater potential to harm or kill a human being.
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She Should See Him for the Manipulative Bastard That He Is
yes poor him
Example
this is a classic.........
telling statement...
I read that too... I was
Sandra Bullock: First post-scandal photo
aw
#5 Sued James!
sweet!
too bad so sad
LOL
Exactly!
broken man or busted man?
poor guy...
Poor Jesse
Animal love--real or supply
Ghostbuster
rehab??
Nazi's Anonymous
He'll Change
change
I see he has checked in to
loving animals..
narcnarcwhosthere
he seems to love his sister's little dog
dogs
Dogs and Animals
i don't know how to start an original post...sorry
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