Infamous Quotes from the N

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#1 Apr 29 - 9PM
neveragain5
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Infamous Quotes from the N

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He had a goatee and asked me to touch it. I felt a dimple in his chin and I playfully looked shocked...He quotes, "Dimple in the chin, devil within"

More than once..."I love Christian Bale. One of my favorite movies is American Psycho".

Upon my thinking that I was pregnant because I as throwing-up, trying to purge the evil I had experienced..."I can't believe you wouldn't have my child! What, you wouldn't want the spawn of Satan?!!". He seemed like he was kidding...he wasn't.

Things I said that resonate after the fact;

Upon waking one morning, I jumped straight out of bed and yelled, "Oh my god! You're a Desperado!!". (That one made him cry).

The first time we had sex..."You have got to be on Viagra!".

The first time we got intimate..."Is everything okay? I feel like I'm not doing it for you".

I blurted out a lot of my observations about him while I was with him. Just couldn't seem to keep my mouth shut!

Jun 12 - 9PM
pegasas269
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irritated

my ex N would always use the word "irritated" when he wasn't getting his way quick enough. it truly meant "give in before i have to hit you". which, btw, he also said flat out a few times except he was standing over me with my arm twisted and his fist raised screaming "why do you gotta make me hit you!!!" if he was getting "irritated" you needed to shut up and act like you were happy about whatever he was making you do. also when he would make me cry(which takes ALOT to do)he would say "why do you always gotta make me feel like the worlds biggest asshole?!?!?" then he'd leave and then come back a bit later and if i was still unable to act happy and loving towards him he would say "wtf, i finally feel better and you gotta start with me again!" and after he tried to kill me and he came around again when he realized i hadn't remembered yet cuz of the stroke he says to me (after 2 years of crying about how much he loved me and begging me to take him back constantly) "i tried to love you, but i'm happier being a miserable crackhead". yeah, that one was REALLY stupid. he hated that i happen to have a genius iq and he couldn't really get over on me like he wanted. unfortunately i have now found myself stuck with an intelligent N. his games don't get by me but they are so truly shady that to say anything would just ruin my life even more. but some of his lines are "women love my hair" "i always have girls half my age hitting on me" the man is old and ugly and people laugh at him so really...lmao now, because i have physical problems and i'm in pain alot, which he loves to cause as much as possible, he is now saying that i can't keep up with him and that i am insecure. rofl yeah, i am outta here as fast as i can find someone to help me get my stuff back outta here. there are so many more things from both that are hillarious when you really think about it, but i need to get off of here before that one gets back from stroking his own ego. i must put on my fake missing him attitude and act like i'm not miserable because of him, but because of my pain and inability to "keep up" with him. the misery is real, but the idea i would stay with this creep is not. i've learned my lesson quite well.
Jun 12 - 10PM (Reply to #65)
happydaysahead
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Yep !!

Everything "irritated" my N. And whenever I was trying to do something and I would need his help, he would get so disgusted and say Damn, it's like teaching a retard to ride a bike !! So, guess I'll just add retard to the list of names I was !! Big WEENIE !!
May 7 - 8PM
Classie
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Enamored

My ex N, would blurt out, "I know I'm good looking man, may not be the best looking man, but I know I'm good looking!" He stated this far too often, and at the strangest times. What a self-absorbed, vain, boring man he was!
May 7 - 9PM (Reply to #63)
Susan32
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"I think I'm right;I know I'm right;I'm right"

Thus spake my ex-N. Of course he loved the sound of his voice... No wonder he snapped when anybody disagreed with him...
May 6 - 10PM
James (not verified)
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Those who laugh last, laugh the longest

There were many quotes from my ex but this one I for some reason hold in front and can’t seem to forget about. First I like to set the scene due to the fact that many times whenever she would start to rage about something it would happen when the rest of the family was at rest or peace. Almost like she needed to start something maybe because she was bored? Who know? Anyway... “One day while my children were in their rooms playing a video game and I sitting in the front room watching television for some reason she became upset over something (whatever it was I can’t remember) and started yelling throughout the house how we couldn’t survive without her. The exact quote was just that. “You guys couldn’t survive without me!!!” I was caught off guard and surprised not only with her statement but also why she was so upset. I did reply by stating. “That’s not true and yes we can survive without you”. So the children never did come out of their rooms and asked me why their mother was so upset. We all got use to the rages and remember too just let her do it (yell) and get it over as quickly as possible. Lord, in our home there were eggshells in every corner and cracks. Do all one can but sooner or later the yelling always started and mostly over the little of things. What is most ironic about this quote is how we are surviving without her today and really doing a much better job at it! What’s that old saying? “Those who laugh last, laugh the longest”.. LOL! PS: this is fun!! http://james-personalitydisorder.blogspot.com/
May 6 - 6PM
Janet
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"I'm a handful" "Did you GET

"I'm a handful" "Did you GET the memo on me?" "I ought to come with a warning label" "I'm just a boy" "Do I look like I have a vagina? All after some absurd behavior as a way to diffuse the situation and make him seem cute, clever, innocent of his bad behavior and harmless. Peace. J

Peace. J

May 6 - 3PM
sanctuary
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Forgot about this one until

Forgot about this one until I was reading this post. Holding my hand looking straight into my eyes, "I know I'm in love with you, you're the only woman I've never cheated on." First, WTF!! Second, confessed to about 5 affairs two weeks later in an attempt to keep me from leaving by playing martyr!!
May 9 - 10PM (Reply to #59)
broken23
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sanctuary... he said the

sanctuary... he said the same thing. youre the only one i never cheated on. 1. red flag...stupid me. he cheated on the first 8?!? and i thought i was different 2. liar...umm we broke up b/c yes he was cheating
May 6 - 4PM (Reply to #58)
quietude (not verified)
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lol

Wow, that makes sense! (NOT!!!) Honestly, after a while, it's soooo laughable...
May 6 - 4PM (Reply to #57)
happydaysahead
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?????????

HUH ??? Was that suppose to flatter you or what ?? What a pud !!
May 6 - 11AM
Susan32
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"Why are you always happy?"

My ex-N ALWAYS asked me that. Then I found out that narcissists hate happiness, joy. Makes sense. He claimed I didn't take life "seriously." He called my feelings for him a "diversion" and claimed that I had treated him "casually" (when I was the one D&D'd)
May 6 - 9AM
narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)
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yes, Grossot...i do......

i think he is 'quite pleased with himself'...he slithered away... he did it.. pulled his final disappearing act....the ultimate Big Houdini.... as i said in a wicked little 'tribute' i wrote about him yesterday......' on April 25th, mike merely floated away downstream and left everyone else behind to drown in the river of tears he created'.... yes...i'm sure he's quite pleased with himself.....he dodged it all..all the responsbility..all the consequences...all of it....and that's what matters...the fact that he had to die to do it was no doubt worth it to him.....
May 6 - 10PM (Reply to #53)
grossot
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NarcNarc

I only said that cuz I believe in Hell. Not trying to change your views or anything. Altho I do picture him smirkin at Lucipher as if he's nothing to be afraid of. Of course we don't know...but, well, I guess I just believe in Hell. One of my other posts describe a dream I believe God sent me that was supposed to give me a glimpse of Hell. The dream was ferocious and axiety inducing. I prayed and realized God was showing me what's in store for thes creatures. (This was just my one time experience) but my faith teaches there is a hell. Sorry NN. My mistake. I'm not here to change anyone....I love to hear all different views and oppinions. Maybe u r right. Maybe he's paying no consequence in his afterlife. http://hubpages.com/hub/Married-to-a-Narcissist?preview nolongercontrolled
May 7 - 3PM (Reply to #54)
narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)
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no offense taken or meant.......

i just simply meant that yes.....i believe he was quite pleased with himself always......including as he lay dying..that he felt he'd done no wrong to anyone.....that he had ZERO conscience..... that unlike a human being who was dying...who would likely be relfecting back on their life,the good and the bad......he was relecting upon the consistency of his MASHED POTATOES... he was always quite pleased with himself....no matter what he did..or who he did it to.....he continued to be quite pleased with himself after murdering BEN...after destroying my life.....after destroying many other lives.....his actions and despicable behavior had no effect on his very high opinion of himself.... and since he was pure evil...and reveled in doing evil...if there is a Hell....and if he's in Hell....then he would be quite pleased with the evil he wrought while here on earth....he did what he came to do........destroy lives... i would love to think that there were some consequences for him after death....since he faced so few in life....but since he was pure Evil...i would assume Hell to him would be just like being one big family reunion......
May 5 - 9PM
Kelly
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He said A LOT . . . But this was the best . . .

He walks in my apartment, passionate emabrace, and then says . . "By the way, I just wanted to let you know, I'm normal."
May 6 - 10PM (Reply to #51)
grossot
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narcmagnet

Bahahahah! ROFLMAO! Normal. Psh! That's a riot! http://hubpages.com/hub/Married-to-a-Narcissist?preview nolongercontrolled
May 6 - 9PM (Reply to #50)
neveragain5
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Just, LOL!!!

Just, LOL!!!
May 5 - 8PM
grossot
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this has always puzzled me

Daughter was about 3 months old. I was trying to be the mom I thought I should be letting her sleep and eat on a schedule. One night after she had been sleeping for about an hour, I said to my NH 'I wish I could just go hold her'. He said, 'just go do it; she's yours isn't she?'He was honestly perplexed as to why I would not go wake her up. Its like the thought never crossed his mind about what would be best for our baby. NN - this is too frickin' funny: "It was true at the time I said it but now it is not!" At our divorce deposition NH testified that I was a good mother. approximately 2 months later during the pretrial he was asked if he thought I was a good mother His answer: "Not now, because of her lack of communication!" Heehee. Its like they were fing cloned. So narcnarc, do you think he's quite pleased with himself now?! http://hubpages.com/hub/Married-to-a-Narcissist?preview nolongercontrolled
May 4 - 8PM
gullablegull (not verified)
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THIS ONE IS MY FAVORITE SO

THIS ONE IS MY FAVORITE SO FAR!! He said "i did LSD and i Fri, 04/30/2010 - 07:48 — Scoop He said "i did LSD and i felt all my feelings at once and then i put them in a walnut and that is where they still are LMAO-Holy crap...some of these are hilarious!
May 4 - 7PM
narcsurvivor
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There are many (and many

There are many (and many that are similar to your Ns sayings as well), but this one he repeated a lot: "Your betrayal would [sic] be dealt with." And boy, did he mean it. Watch out, don't cross the N!
May 4 - 11AM
broken23
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im sorry you love me more

im sorry you love me more than i love you i know how to get girls to fall in love with me you will never leave me you think your father is better than everyone
May 5 - 8PM (Reply to #45)
grossot
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oh yeah and...

In the beginning stahes of love where I was head over heals for him, I said "I hope I die first bc I don't know what I'd do without you" N:"yeah I hope so too". I questioned him about it later and he got me to believe he was honestly thinking of my fragile feelings when he said that! WTF? Helloo-oo! I would call myself an idiot for not seeing that one but I do know I was cast under his spell! http://hubpages.com/hub/Married-to-a-Narcissist?preview nolongercontrolled
May 4 - 11AM
Belinda
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Hi Here's a quote that he

Hi Here's a quote that he believed and enjoyed to say to me that you may find funny, " I know you better than you know yourself " Or this one.... " Get a Life" I'd reply " What? I do have a Life" he looked shocked and said angerily "No you don't!" LOL
May 4 - 12PM (Reply to #42)
Barbara (not verified)
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more proof

NOT human NOT human NOT human ~~~~~~~~~ Moving Forward: Coaching for Victims Pathologicals Feelings buried alive never die. - Alice Miller
May 6 - 6PM (Reply to #43)
Susan32
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Power and control

My ex-N thought he could command my feelings... I let him know otherwise. I told him bluntly that like other HUMANS I respected people's free will. It's inhuman to think one can command the feelings and thoughts of another.
May 1 - 10AM
neveragain5
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Ohhhhh, here's another one

Ohhhhh, here's another one he said; After I kept breaking-up with him, he says, "You gave me the best sex of my life! I guess I have to go back to a bottle of lotion and jacking off". Yeah, guess so! :D
May 4 - 6PM (Reply to #36)
Monica
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Neveragain5 - yours was similar to mine

I kept breaking up with mine, too. Every time he said, "Does this mean I don't get a hand job??" Ditto from me..."Yeah, guess so!" I figure they are happier jacking off anyway. They only have to please themselves, think of themselves, have sex with themselves. Heaven to a N/P.
May 4 - 7PM (Reply to #37)
neveragain5
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Monica

How long were you with him? How soon did you start to break-up with him? When did you figure him out?
May 5 - 8PM (Reply to #38)
Monica
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Neveragain5....

I had known him professionally for several years before our personal relationship began. We were "together" for almost 2 years total. But I knew it was over after less than a year. After the initial couple of months of constant attention, compliments, constant texting and phone calls, passion, flattery, silly poetry...he suddenly became too "busy" with other things. Then came the sarcasm, backhanded insults and the total absence of any emotion or feeling on his part. I was trying to break up with him for the entire second year when I realized that his mask had fallen off and I was just being used - personally and professionally. By that time, I had learned about narcissism and knew that he had NPD. Unfortunately, I was totally hooked by then, too, so he was able to hoover me back in many, many times - I have lost track of how many times. I will always mourn those couple of months early in the "relationship" when he was sweet and fun and passionate and daring and caring (or, should I say, he APPEARED to be those things). But then those memories are quickly squashed when I remember the lies, the push and pull, the lies, the manipulation, the lies, the immense ego and arrogance...and did I mention the lies? And those vacant, empty eyes. Scary stuff.
May 6 - 12PM (Reply to #39)
spinning
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Push pull yes

spinning when I'd compliment or ask a question about how he knew something or did something to fix a problem he'd say "You have to know these things when you are king." when the marathon so-called sexual activity was not seeming to work for him it was "You have to get a new bed." when i'd chase him down after a two or three day freeze out he'd tell his friends (he's a supposed pilot): "most women are like flying a plane; she's like flying the space shuttle." when i'd be happy or in a good mood about something good that happened he'd leave my house at night (we didn't cohabitate) and leave notes like this: "I sense something is getting in the way of our relationship and your attentions are elsewhere..." What a glorious thing to wake up to.

spinning