I should know better by now...I should know that if there is any glimmer of a tournament or practice on the local level, odds are better than even, the ex will be there...I don't know WHAT I was thinking.
Syren, it`s okay..it happens. Yu did not have control over that whole bunch of group that yu belong to, or whether or not that friend mentioned your name.
BUT, now yu know what can happen, and what are the possibilities. I have made some mistakes like that as well, because I let myself influenced by my friends`s heads, and not mine, lol!
And how many times haven`t I got in trouble like that? Once I bumped into ex`s best friend, because I ignored my gut, and listened to someone else`s disires.
Always listen to your gut! But I`m not worried about you that you`ll make it out of this mess, you`re strong :)
Most of these people aren't very bright...but I know the tournament guy's post about stupid attending was meant to warn me...which I appreciate instead of being blind sided like I was last time when I got ambushed with the OW. It's been two months of NC since I blocked him after the 'incident'...two months is about as long as the ex can go not having any contact with me and then he coincidentally appears. That and he probably gets off on the fact that if he is in attendance and I'm forewarned, I am absent. Sicko probably thinks he's controlling me...in a way, he well may be...doesn't mean I'm going to deliberately deal with past asshole drama to 'prove' something to him or anyone else. Let him think he's "won"...hollow victories seem to be their forte. Tournament guy was also posting my name probably to warn the ex that I would be around too...for someone who tries to be neutral, he doesn't seem to be too awfully neutral.
This is the reason I've chosen not to attend local tournaments and keep it at the regional/national tour level. But he was in a jam and I was trying to help...that'll teach me. :(
I'm an idiot for continuing
I should know better by
Syren, it`s okay..it happens.
Thank you, GG...but I feel
Most of these people aren't
And so in the end, I think
Good for you, Syren! You must
Yeah it does feel great! Like