What Are The Chances He'll Come Back?
What Are The Chances He'll Come Back?
My ex disappeared from my life last fall, with no explanation (and even denying that he had - "we're still friends!"). I haven't heard from him since Christmas. I received two very brief "Happy holidays!" e-mails over the holidays sent to my FB e-mail. Before that, around October, I had e-mailed him (my last outreach to him) to tell him how badly he hurt me by just walking away without a word or explanation, how I hadn't deserved that, and how I would never understand how he'd thought it was acceptable. He never even acknowledged receiving it, let alone addressed it, but when the first holiday e-mail showed up a month or so later, it was clear he hadn't completely cut me off or was going to rip me to shreds for daring to challenge his behavior.
I deleted him from my FB about a month and a half ago. He can still send me a message if he chooses to - that option is still there- but he can't see anything on my page. I haven't heard a word from him.
He's been busy the last few months with the first floozy I was aware of that came after me. My impression is that that's cooled lately and he's gone back sniffing around the one who came BEFORE me, although I could be wrong on both those counts. I do know that the one before me never did take her own measures to cut him off like I did - she's been involved in new relationship of her own, but she and my ex still seem to communicate off and on, especially lately.
How likely is it that he'll turn up back in my life sooner or later? I believe he ultimately left because I stopped letting his treatment of me slide - the never calling, the standing me up for things, that sort of thing - and he didn't like it, and then I confronted him on the manner in which he left. Obviously I was no longer making things easy for him. And then I kicked him off my FB friends list. Would that be a deterrant to him - that if he were to come back around, chances are (in his mind - and he'd be right) I wouldn't just roll over and never mention everything that happened before? Or is it more likely that he'll lay low for awhile, let the dust settle, and then test the waters?
Do birds fly???
Mandy, I just had to comment...
LML
My exN contacted an old flame
Strongerthanever
Exactly. From what I also
This is all so very
PrettyPeeved
Yeah, have to be ready to
Mandy
I think the better question is
YES Michele115 HAVE A PLAN
100% chance
clueless
Clueless is a good friend of
Sick of It
yep. he likes married women.
I've been NC for 14 months
I hope for your sake he never
Years can go by...
They really do all have the
I used to wonder this too. Oh
What chance?
The first thing my therapist
Ideal
Yes!
Bite!
Hahaha!
Mandy
Mandy and IB
That was my exact wording