Blindsided by the Narc

My phone just rang at work and I picked up and said my usual work greeting and on the other end I hear, “let’s go to the house and have sex after work”! He got this out of his mouth before I had time to even realize it was him much less hang up on him. It wasn’t like.....Hey....what’s up? He just blurted out... let’s go to the house after work and have sex!!!!

You don’t even have to tell me my next move should have been to hang up the freaking phone but my mouth takes over when I get enraged and I couldn’t stop myself!! It’s insulting! I also know defending myself to a Narc is pointless but it is so hard to NOT defend myself!!!! I didn’t scream and yell like a lunatic and I just laughed at him and said it must be a sad lonely life to be led around by your d**k 24 hours a day!!! I told him I was worth a whole lot more than just a piece of ass and he went on to tell me how much he loved me and thought about me all the time. He started listing all the stuff that he had been thinking about and I said, tell me what common denominator does that list have? He said sex! Then I told him to grow up and leave me alone! His answer was, “well I thought I’d give it a shot”!

I think my blood pressure is 300/200 because I’m so MAD! I know I should have hung up but even if I would have hung up I’d still be MAD because he would have still gotten out the “invitation”!!!! Somebody PLEASE tell me I can call or email him and cuss him like the dog he is! I don’t think I can ignore it. I know I should and I know cussing him only makes me look pathetic but I am a person with freaking feelings! I’m losing control of the rage. I’m going to walk over to where he works and beat the hell out of him with a chair or whatever I can pick up on the way! I just want him to hurt and since he has no heart, no soul and no feelings then maybe physical pain is my best shot!!!!!!!!!

I have had it. I guess I’m going to have to embarrass myself and go to my bosses and let them put a stop to it. Do you know how hard that is when you’ve worked somewhere and built up a reputation of a being a great worker and then to have all of that ruined and second guessed when you start “whining” because some idiot won’t leave you alone? I work with mostly MEN! Do you think they are going to be compassionate about what’s going on? HELL NO! They are going to roll their eyes and think I’m a scorned female! We all know that is exactly what they will think. All of this hard work will be for NOTHING! Something else he gets to take away from me!!!!!!!!!