Life is a state of mind
Life is a state of mind
"Life truly is not about the events that take place. Its not about who did what and how they did it. It has everything with how we take these events and look at the bigger picture so we can make the right choices going forward. Its about how we respond to the events in life that make the difference. We can choose to wallow, have self-pity. We can choose to live in despair, feel angry,remorseful,vengeful, guilty, lost,confused and sad. But then again we can choose not to. Life is really a state of mind. And the choice is only ours to define the direction our life takes."
I just read what Betty posted the other day and it says it all for me. I know that it is near impossible to feel this in the beginning of N/C. When the emotions are raw and the feelings need to come out and this is o.k. just keep getting them out and as you move past all of that and begin to get yourself back, it is a beautiful thing to realize that we have control over our thoughts, choices, and the direction in which we want our lives to take. The steps help so much with this process and to get to this point.
Thanks again Betty, another great empowering post!!
God bless,
Goldie
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momoya
Exactly :) This is a
Acknowledging the emotions
Everyone is tested. We have
Goldie, Betty and Briseis
Yikes
OOoooo you are such a
Yes, you are right