A bizarre narc encounter this morning--I'm mad at myself but madder at him--help!
A bizarre narc encounter this morning--I'm mad at myself but madder at him--help!
So you guys know he crosses the street when he sees me. This was funny and satisfying for the first two months, iknowing he was afraid of me or whatever. But it's gotten to me. The kids witness this--his little boy and my girls--and I really feel this is a terrible way to live, as insignificant as it is. It's just silly and childish and unfair to the children, who are very friendly with each other at school. He's pretty much teaching this child to be a jerk to my daughters because the narc can't be a man about what he did and talk to me and apologize.
So anyway, this morning I was walking home from school and he was walking TO school and when he saw me he and the child crossed the street. So I thought, enough. I crossed over and he crossed back. So I crossed back again and i said, "Don, please. Enough. It is what it is and it's over. This isn't necessary." I went to put my hands on his shoulders and just give him a kind look, and he completely blocked me with his free arm (he was holding the child's hand with the other) and pushed me out of the way, saying, "I don't have time for this." This was today, three days after he left a note on my car (about the fifth since I found out about the other women), saying, "Don't you want to save us? Tell me what you want." So he leaves me these notes and then gives me the A hole victim treatment in public.
My adult, sensible, non-grudge-holding self is trying to figure out a way to put this behind us and stop the goofiness. How can he possibly act like I did something wrong and he's the victim? Meanwhile asking me to talk to him?
HE'S A NARC
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HD & friends
really??
HELLDWELLER
playing the victim
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michele
Heldweller
michele!
Let me just clarify
oh yes I totally get that
They're perpetual victims...
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