Merry Christmas!
Merry Christmas!
Or, Happy Holidays for those who do not celbrate....
I want to take a moment to wish each and every one of you peace, joy, love and light.
We've been through so much...
We are all at different stages...
Make the commitment to make this Christmas about you.
My mother has already done the deed with attempting to ruin my Christmas...
I am looking forward to a day with my son - have no idea what we're gonna do - he did ask to go to midnight mass...I don't think I've done that since seventh grade myself!
At Christmas, we celebrate the birth of Jesus. I was too broke this year to buy my son a gift. I am going to get him something during the sales...I just could not get out, deal with the crowds - but we will spend time together, go to dinner do something we haven't done in ages.
For those of you in similar situations - alone...try to reach out to people...don't be too proud.
If you rather hibernate, buy some nice bubble bath, some wine, rent a few movies - comedies are probably best...and think about the future and how this year is coming to a close and how you are going to make the commmitment that as the old year ends, so will the old chapter of the DYFUNCTIONAL life you had with the Narc will also come to a close.
I don't know how to describe how I feel, but I am not sad, I am not angry...I'm not happy yet, but I am very much in a state of the present moment to moment. There is a semblance of peace and tranquility.
It will be hard tomorrow in certain ways - lack of energy, that was the good thing the Narc drives - but one way or the other tomorrow will be about my son and I and hopefully this will be the beginning of new traditions...
I hope each of you experience the same peace...our minds will take us anywhere we want to go.
Be kind to yourselves...you deserve it.
Do not reflect on what the Narc took away from you - Reflect upon all you learned and all you will achieve in his absence. The truth is, he could never take away that which you own.
The realization of your true essence - your authentic self.
Hugs....
Merry Christmas
Journey on...
Wonderful thread...thank you
Merry Christmas!!!
Good one
Merry Christmas everyone!!
Merry Chistmas to all you
"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess
Merry Christmas
Merry Christmas!
Faithinthefuture
Merry Christmas Too
You too
michelle115
Merry Christmas and Happy
Peace. J