When You're Really Missing Him, Tell Yourself This
When You're Really Missing Him, Tell Yourself This
When I am in the deepest throes of missing him (magical thinking because the 'him' that I miss is just an illusion) I tell myself this:
WAKE UP Morty! Remember what he said when you were in the deepest pain you had ever felt before in your life at his doing. He said, 'I don't think I've done anything so bad here to warrant sad looks and being made to feel like the bad guy.'
Even IF none of what he did was intentional and even IF he's not disordered, do you really want to waste any more of your precious time on someone who doesn't have enough class to simply realize when he's treated a person badly?
Who doesn't have enough class to sincerely apologize for being a jerk?
Forget all of the other, more complicated stuff that goes along with the PD.... What about common decency?
No - I don't want to waste my time anymore on someone who either cannot, will not, or wasn't taught to display common courtesy to others.
Then, I stop yearning for him because it's pretty clear to see - he's a simply a jerk and I don't have any need or desire to associate with a jerk.
Being grateful
morty
WOW, you are on a roll
I love this post. I read
And Another Thing
My EXNarc
ugh. So true! My ex
Apologizing for Their Bad Behavior
AMEN
hi morty
Thanks OWML
Right on mort!
spinning
hi Morty,
Kudos Morty!
When the psychopath is a TEACHER...
Susan
"Those whom the gods destroy..."
Yes, They Do Know That They are Manipulative
So true. Only a psychopath
Yea Broken
michele115
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