my friends have questions for all of you
my friends have questions for all of you
I told my friends about this site. I ve tried over and over again to explain to them the workings of a narc. But each one has said, yes, we believe hes a narc and they are sick psychos, we believe your hN is a total psychopath, but what they cant understand is this thing called supply. They said, yes, if he had no one else, they could understand this constant i love you, miss you, need you etc, but they cant understand, and asked that i ask all of you, why he would continue this, when he has his whore he is living with? they keep saying, he doesnt need you right now, it doesnt make sense, men usually dont want to be bothered by their spouses once they are thrown out or leave, they finally get what they want. So they want to know why all the effort in continuing to tell me he doesnt love her, wants out, and all he goes through to continue his facade? I explained, its safety supply, he needs to know im still here, standing still, not moving on, and to know if things dont work out there, he has me. They dont buy it, how can i explain, through all of you, what i mean by this, is there another way to explain there is no explanation, ive said he thrives on drama, its part of the illness, they dont buy it, they say that no one continues it for this long, on a daily basis, so i pose this question, why would even a psychopath continue such a facade, for this long when he is in a relationship and has supply? they say, why would he do this if hes gotten what he wanted. I tried to explain in layman's terms(so to speak)not that im an expert, but they feel im speaking gibberish, why dont they understand? all they ever say is, i dont buy it. please help me to explain better, because they think hes up to something else,they all have different theories, none that coincide with a narc, and none of it makes any sense to them, as it makes no sense to me either, but im learning more about it....can you help to say it in a way they will understand, if feel like when i talk to them its like chasing my own tail around the room, every thing i say, they say, i dont buy it.......please help me express in simpler terms or in a better way...........thanks jaycee
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