I saw him today with a new woman :(
I saw him today with a new woman :(
N/C 1 month today.
A girlfriend of mine has been trying to set me up with this really sweet guy she knows whom she says reminds her of her husband. And her husband treats her like a queen and is an incredible man. Long story/short, this guy and I are meeting up for a beverage on Thursday evening.
He sent me a couple of cute, funny texts this afternoon and I felt good, giddy almost.
New guy and narc have the same name.
So I'm driving this afternoon, feeling great...and as I'm passing by the turn off to narc's street (there was no other way to take as my child was in a sporting event that I had just left) I see him and this woman power walking. Power walking like a couple of the most happiest power walkers I'd ever seen in my life. Man they looked happy. Thrilled. Her long hair was flowing in the wind.
Immediately I felt like someone had punched me in the stomach. I felt like throwing up.
My happy went to crappy in seconds flat.
So after that delightful moment, my brain chatter begins. 1 month and he's with some new girl already! He's probably on his night shifts, she has no kids...she's over there for dinner and they're out for a nice walk while dinner is cooking. I bet they went to the pumpkin patch with his kids and had Thanksgiving with his parents like we did last year. (We live in Canada.)
He always called me paranoid. Maybe my paranoia drove him right into the arms of the happy power-walker. Maybe if I had of been more self-assured like happy power-walker lady, we'd be great right now. Maybe he wouldn't of had to keep looking for other "fixes" if I'd of chilled out the first time, or the second...or the ten other times.
He admitted he had been to blame somewhat for my paranoia. Who wouldn't be? Does a normal guy have multiple female friends (platonic friends) who they need to chat with regularly on Facebook, msn, texting and phone calls?
Is that normal for some folks?
This power walking stallion-ess probably doesn't care if he chats on msn with women friends or on Facebook or whatever. And according to "Men Love Bitches", lol...you should set out to trap a man, but allow him to think he's trapping you.
So jealousy, paranoia and all those other things turn a guy off.
So is he a narc or was he just a normal guy waiting to meet the right girl and I screwed it up!?
Ladies, I need you. Thanks all.
Poor woman with her hair flowing in the wind....
losing it
movingforward
hi Even if he wormed his way
i saw him today
Jaycee
movingforward
Movingforward
I can't add...
~~~ Keep Learning & Keep Healing ~~~
~~~~~ The best revenge is to survive and be victorious over it. Nobody can take from you what you don't give them.
She looks so happy because
wowzers
So sorry for the shock. I
almostlydia
Agreed 100% almostlydia!
Hey!...Stop that!
Hold on sweetie, you just
p.s.
Ugh
Thank you!!!
girl,power walk?
LMAO!!
TY! I promise