Ex trying to come back. Need your advice, please.
Ex trying to come back. Need your advice, please.
I returned from my holiday from where I used to live feeling a bit more relaxed, though parting with my old friends again and facing life without the ones here (because they are that man's friends, too)made me sad. Plus I still suffer from sensual withdrawal after more than 11 years with my ex. I had to go to two funerals before I'd left, one with the ex. Coming home I found a note that my cousin died. I have had quite a bit to cope with this year, but I managed.
So after two bad days I recovered a bit and coming home tonight, what should I find? Number of my ex on my phone, twice. I had left him 2 months ago and had done so in a what I'd imagined clever way, phasing him out slowly, being cool, slightly indifferent. No rows, explanations. After a while he got the message and gave up. Fine. I realized he would probably contact me one day (aren't they boomerangs?)and had decided to play it as cool as I had done so far. Only now, after all that happened, even talking to him seems too much. Does anyone have any idea how to get rid of him for good? Do I pull myself together, chat a bit implying casually I have someone else? Do I tell him firmly I want no more contact and hang up? Do I just not pick up the phone seeing his number, till he gets the message? I have changed my email and mobile but cannot change this one because of my clients.
Strictly no contact
There's probably nothing you
Definatly dont talk to him ,
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Scoop
It doesn't sound like you
No response. Mine always
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