Why is it so diffucult to get over these people?
Why is it so diffucult to get over these people?
Hello all, i was thinking this morning that the real reason we have such a hard time getting over these men or women is because of one word HOPE, I know for me that is a big stumbling block, always thinking he will get better, if only this or that.. I know to us humans ,hope is a factor really engrained in our hardwiring, it is what makes you go on when all else has failed so my thought is it is very difficult to let go of that emotion.I have been over a year and a half out of my relationship but for some reason I refuse to let hope die with this man, even though I know I need to and tell myself that over and over again. to me any hope for that man will ONLY come thru an epiphany on his part, like death bed or a boulder falling on his head!!So I keep trying to retrain my brain to let go and move on. I am ready to date again but cannot seem to find a man i feel comfortable with on all levels, for me if I could meet a really good man, I do think i would have moved on easier. I have spent a lot of time by myself and know what i want this time around, if it ever comes to me! What are your thoughts on all this?
Hope
They leave you in a state of
only one way to go...Forward (tm?)
yes Betty
so hard to let go
helldweller
ShaynasMommy
They never let go...
Mine wouldn't say anything
That's such a good point,
I know what you mean...
Imabloke
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imabloke
Shaynasmommy
It is because....
"Be who you are, and say what you feel; for those who mind don't matter, and those that matter don't mind." - Dr. Seuss
Falling in love with potential
Toxic hope is a killer
HOPE
Faithinthefuture
That "epiphany hope" must be
Peace. J
well spoken Janet!
I held on to hope thru so
almostlydia