Why does he do this?
Why does he do this?
I was with my N for 9 years.He cheated constantly, but I believe he was both a somatic and cerebral cuz he would withdraw and withold sex as well as cheat.
Back in April, on Good Friday, we had an argument (it really wasn't that big) but he used this as a reason to "separate" cuz "you need to work on yourself and your jealousy issues".
During this time he hooked up with a new girl and kept lying to me about it. Kept saying he wasn't with anyone. But I knew something wasn't right cuz he totally stopped calling me, refused to see me or do anything with me AT ALL. I realize now that he was keeping me on the back burner while he was hooking her.
Anyway I caught him red-handed kissing her one day.He still kept trying to keep me on the back burner telling me he wasn't with her but he still wouldn't have much to do with me.
Long story short I finally went NC with him about 3 months ago after I caught him coming home from a date with her. I went NC after that cuz I just couldn't take anymore, I just was in too much pain.
Last Tuesday I saw him for the first time since NC at my son's guitar practice. His son goes to the same place. My sons lesson ends 15 mins before his sons start. But on tuesday lessons were running 15 mins late so I was waiting out in the car in the parking lot for my son to come out.
ExN pulled in with his son. Now mind you he could have parked 4 cars over from me on the other side of this big red truck and I would have never even known he was there cuz I couldn't see the parking lot entrance from where I was. So he could have parked there and I would not have known he was there. But he parked next to me, one empty car space over.
His son (who I helped raise these past 9 years) went in for his lesson and we sat there for the next 10 mins in silence til my son came out, He wouldn't even look at me.
Why did he do this and WHY does he act like he HATES ME?? He ruined us and destroyed me, so why does he act like he hates me?
FIRST I was de-valued, THEN I was replaced, THEN I was discarded yet he hates me? I hurt constantly, everyday. I still think about him non stop and am very depressed. I still cry everyday and am just having such a hard time getting over him and even harder time moving on.
Anyone know why he HATES ME?
Hatred
Also,
shanyasmommy
hates me
Educate Yourself about this disorder--so important!!!
He hates you because you know the truth...
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Aceonelady
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he hates me ...why thats the big question for me too...
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