Vent: Facebook

I'm on a roll today now that I'm finally posting :)

Isn't FB a narcissist's dream tool? The BT (the Bitchy Troll, what I call the ex NH) has been a real piece of work when it comes to his FB page. The whole breakup has been reduced to dramatic, self serving updates about what I did to him, to which his gaggle of adoring women (and a few men) can respond with supply. "Oh BT, you're so wonderful, you're so special, you deserve the best, etc. etc."

The worst is when they tell him to never give up, never stop fighting for me. NOnononono, not that! Ladies you can have him, really!

Sometimes it's some esoteric Guru statement that he read somewhere.

Or the cryptic approach, so that people will, again, assume he's deep and mysterious. This might include philosophy, foreign language or obscure song lyrics.

And then there's the posts that just emphasize how very popular he is, how busy his social life, how many friends love him. Have you ever noticed that about the N? A normal comment after meeting someone would be "I really liked X, I'd like to get to know him/her better." The N is more likely to say "X totally LOVED me, we're going to be best friends." Lol

There are also the posts where he demonstrates his deep generosity "I saw a poor prostitute at the bar, gave her $100 and didn't make her perform services, just talked to her, told her she needs to get off the street." I am not making this one up, he's done this a number of times, and it's even more effective now that he has FB so he can share his selflessness with all his friends!

I notice that most of his activity is in the wee hours, when he's no doubt downed one or more bottles of wine.

End rant, but needless to say when mutual friends start sending me emails saying so...um...how are you doing? I know he's probably said something else ridiculous about the demise of our marriage or taken a direct stab at me.

What

Ever!