Being ignored
Being ignored
I haven't been here for a year, but it's been the same old, same old. Me being priority no. 869 but hearing all about how he's been doing this with a friend or that with a neighbour. I finally told him how much it hurt me, and of course he blew up at me. We didn't speak, then he got back in touch with me. Everything seemed fine, he went away, sent me a nice message before he left, got in touch while he was away. Returned & nothing. I asked him what was going on and he said I'd asked him not to contact me, and I'd re-initiated contact (no, he had). He told me I'm obviously very confused and he feels sorry for me.
It all blew up, and he told me he'd leave me alone. That was fine, but we'd already organised for me to do something for him, which I am now, and need to ask him something, and he is refusing to respond.
I don't know what happened when he was overseas, he was in contact and seemed fine, but something changed. It is so hard to have known somebody for so long and now be treated so appallingly.
How do you deal with it? I am normally a fairly rational person, but this is sending me around the twist. For the first time ever, I'm wanting to start flooding with texts and emails asking what the hell I've done wrong, but I know that will just make me look like a lunatic.
How do you move on without any closure?
You're not being ignored...
Great point Lacey!
What a mess
Have to reach your "enough" moment
I guess that's where I
He's not worth it, regardless
Thanks Lacey :) I have
Going forward
I am really struggling with
He is trying to regain control
Thanks what.a.mess. I feel
No, he's not
'Striped, he's not
Striped, I know you are
spinning
Hi spinning, I just can't
When dealing with a Narc, the
All I can say about my past
I don't want to presume for
Yes I have wondered if
what IFT said
Thank yih for this, Soinning.
Ditto to what Lacey said!
I really feel for you Striped
Dear Striped
What Trixy said
It's not really possible to
you accept you have to