really worrying about going to court on wednesday dont no what to do.
really worrying about going to court on wednesday dont no what to do.
After my ex tried taking my son and not giving him back, i went to a solicitor coz had no legal rights as his name was on the birth cirtificate-the only way i got him back was becoz he didnt have any of his medication with him.
Anyway long story short, i went to see a solicitor and it got took to emergancy court, i showed them all the txs/emails he had sent me, and i got emergancy legal aid. Going to court was absolutely awful, my ex stood there and made out like he was the perfect dad, said id been uncooperative with him being able to contact me and honestly if he could have talked any more he would of had the judge over! Thank god for the txs and emails i had of proof. Anyway i got a prohibited steps order and it had to be returned to court in a few months (which is this weds coming up) the judge made me feel so horrible, told me i need to act responsibly and communicate with my ex about our son. (This is all from the limited contact business)
Anyway i had to unblock my emails, coz id blocked him, and i decided to put a book in my sons bag to record anything he needed to no, which ive been writing init most days just like a diary, and having to respond to his emails but only discussing our son-its been killing me, but im so scared he will only use it against me once again in court.
The other day i got a letter to say my legal aid had been declined becoz i am a student and working and they hadnt took into account my student loan, so now ive got to pay all the costs of my solicitor and court fees how ever much that will be, i understand its somthing i had to do go through court but its just rubbish how they can give u legal aid then decide actually ur not entitled to it, the problem is now i cant afford a solicitor for on weds, so im going to just have to be strong and stand up in court on my own. Im so scared, its making me sick the thought of this, he is so good at winning people over, also im going to have to see him before hand in the court waiting room! Last time, my solicitor let me sit in a special room away from him, but i wont have one this time will a.
I no ive got to do it, for my boy i just want weds over with, im so scared. xxx
Sorry didnt realise.....
You changed your name..
Omg thank you so much april,
Going to court - long post
Yes i am in the uk, ur right
JemJem - are you in the uk?
Jemmy
JemJem
Its been took to court twice
Jemjem. I've been exactly
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JemJem
Pumpkin
I can feel your pain. I have
Let's face it, judges can be
Fake it 'til you make it JemJem!
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