really worrying about going to court on wednesday dont no what to do.

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#1 Mar 29 - 6PM
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really worrying about going to court on wednesday dont no what to do.

After my ex tried taking my son and not giving him back, i went to a solicitor coz had no legal rights as his name was on the birth cirtificate-the only way i got him back was becoz he didnt have any of his medication with him.

Anyway long story short, i went to see a solicitor and it got took to emergancy court, i showed them all the txs/emails he had sent me, and i got emergancy legal aid. Going to court was absolutely awful, my ex stood there and made out like he was the perfect dad, said id been uncooperative with him being able to contact me and honestly if he could have talked any more he would of had the judge over! Thank god for the txs and emails i had of proof. Anyway i got a prohibited steps order and it had to be returned to court in a few months (which is this weds coming up) the judge made me feel so horrible, told me i need to act responsibly and communicate with my ex about our son. (This is all from the limited contact business)

Anyway i had to unblock my emails, coz id blocked him, and i decided to put a book in my sons bag to record anything he needed to no, which ive been writing init most days just like a diary, and having to respond to his emails but only discussing our son-its been killing me, but im so scared he will only use it against me once again in court.

The other day i got a letter to say my legal aid had been declined becoz i am a student and working and they hadnt took into account my student loan, so now ive got to pay all the costs of my solicitor and court fees how ever much that will be, i understand its somthing i had to do go through court but its just rubbish how they can give u legal aid then decide actually ur not entitled to it, the problem is now i cant afford a solicitor for on weds, so im going to just have to be strong and stand up in court on my own. Im so scared, its making me sick the thought of this, he is so good at winning people over, also im going to have to see him before hand in the court waiting room! Last time, my solicitor let me sit in a special room away from him, but i wont have one this time will a.

I no ive got to do it, for my boy i just want weds over with, im so scared. xxx

Apr 13 - 3AM
Redrho70
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Sorry didnt realise.....

Apr 13 - 1AM
Redrho70
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You changed your name..

Mar 31 - 4PM
hope29
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Omg thank you so much april,

Mar 30 - 11PM
AprilD
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Going to court - long post

Mar 30 - 1PM
hope29
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Yes i am in the uk, ur right

Mar 30 - 1PM
Redrho70
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JemJem - are you in the uk?

Mar 30 - 11AM
IncognitoBurrito
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Jemmy

Mar 30 - 4AM
sucked-in
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JemJem

Mar 30 - 3AM
hope29
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Its been took to court twice

Mar 30 - 5AM (Reply to #8)
don'tlookback
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Jemjem. I've been exactly

Mar 29 - 10PM
IncognitoBurrito
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Let your

Mar 29 - 10PM
Pumpkin
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If

Pumpkin

Mar 29 - 9PM
Pumpkin
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JemJem

Pumpkin

Mar 29 - 9PM
ClaimingHappiness
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I can feel your pain. I have

Mar 29 - 7PM
JCat
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Let's face it, judges can be

Mar 29 - 8PM (Reply to #2)
NoNarcingZone
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Fake it 'til you make it JemJem!

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