I could really use some advice...
I could really use some advice...
So, let me start off by telling you a little bit about my past. I was with what I believe was a NPD off and on for around 9 years. Currently we have split up and have been split up successfully for the last year. What I am struggling with right now is that he is courting again. Which usually isn't a problem, but for some reason right now I feel weak and confused and want to fall back into it. I know why I shouldn't fall into it and why it is a bad idea. But, I am still struggling with some questions. My first question is "Will I ever stop wanting/loving him?" It would be easier long term to stay away from him if I didn't always feel that pull to him. I know he has hurt me a lot, but I still feel like I want/love him. Mt other question is "How do you not love beyond faults?" Our oldest child has autism, and despite his issues I still love him. So, if my NPD ex has issues as well, how can I not love him despite those issues. Doesn't that seem wrong? Any help or support you can give is much appreciated. Thanks.
Emotions are not written in
NPD forms in childhood from
I know where you're coming from
Believe in yourself!
Terri
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Google: codependent, love addict, trauma bond...
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littlemisscrazygirl
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Sounds great!! So ill
Yes!
Then Stop speaking to Him
Will do! lol
LittleMissCrazyGirl
Thanks Janie! That is exactly
Be careful to not confuse
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I think the same question then applies
We actually have three
Ah I see
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Littlemisscrazygirl
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