wanting to support xOW. why?
wanting to support xOW. why?
So N eloped and I know 2 of his xOW's and really want to reach out to them and remind them NC... I was OW last Christmas when they broke NC and know the thrill it gave him.
New victim is young, naive, compliant, contraversial, flighty, and a totally smug bitch from what I hear (hmmm maybe borderline?).... perfect supply for now & I never have had a moments thought to contacting/warn her - I know better than that, so I've definitely made progress.
Dilemna is that I personally know xW (& mother of his children), & remotely know xOW (xfiance, bless her heart) who was right before me. I know that needing to reach out is co-dependent, but I also know they are hurting. What are your thoughts? How do you all deal with this temptation, especially during the holidays. Is this considered breaking NC?
Yogakitteh
not my gain
Kitteh