What was your lightbulb moment to decide to stay NC for good?
What was your lightbulb moment to decide to stay NC for good?
I think that while we know NC is the 'right and only' way to healing, and regaining control over our lives, we sometimes break it, early on in the recovery process.
For me, I've been 15 months NC. In the early stages, after breaking up with N, I broke NC a few times, because he was on a smear campaign to our mutual friends at the time, and I kept trying to figure out (from him) why he was doing and saying such things about me. This served no purpose, except he hung up on me, and during one call said...'I don't care if you died.' (I called a member from this site shortly after that happened, in tears.)
Looking back, wow, it's like that was someone else's life, not mine, you know?
THAT was when I realized...this person is nuts. He will never change. He goads me to calling him, when I do...he just wants to hurt me. Just wants my attention. Just wants supply. It took that moment for me to turn away from contacting him for good.
So, just curious as to what YOUR lightbulb moment was when you realized that staying NC was the ONLY WAY OUT of narc-ville?
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Too Kackered to bother anymore!
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Deidre99
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