Question -
Question -
Ok, as you all know, we excel at self blame. We have been manipulated into it. Or you have been, that seems quite obvious.
As for me, I still live in the self blame
because I know that I made mistakes.
What is your take on someone who
Posted many things on fb, under the guise of " teaching " others..
To make ten or more posts a day, every day,
of OTHER PEOPLES ( mostly Art )
And would thank each person individually
who commented on it, or even liked it.
I found that strange.
But then again, maybe it's just me and my insecurities
happening here.
Why though, would a so called busy " businessman "
spend so much time posting such things..
It was not his Art or whatever he would post.
In fact, he did not EVER post anything about himself
or his life. NEVER.
His private life on fb, seemed top secret.
No, he would only post other peoples things.
When I asked him, he said that he just likes Art
and would have his fb open while he was working
and would " make occasional posts "..
I guess that that is possible..
but I noticed also, the amount of women
who would " thank him profusely "
for posting such wonderful things..
Firstly, GET REAL people !
If you want to know something,
that is what they make google for..
are they incapable of looking for these things for
themselves ?
Also something else that I found odd,
were the posts that he would make
and write on them
" at the request of many friends "..
wtf ?
If I had his five thousand or so " friends "
contacting me and asking me to post this or that,
I would simply tell them to GOOGLE it.
Ok, again, maybe it's just me..
but really I found it abnormal,
when a " random friend "
would comment on one of his posts
with something like
" oh that is so beautiful. My flowers look just like that "
and he would reply
" please send some photos of your flowers "
Really, who gives a f*** ????
Or is it that I am really so insecure
and questioning of things that really aren't what I perceive them to be..
It's time for you to stop
I agree.. throw it all in the
I know. And I'm here to tell
Thanks..I know that I am not
I smell bullshit............
Well, there's not much chance
If a narc wants you back in his life
I was referring to OW.... the
Good for you !
The thing that I don't get
I don't get it either
I think I may have missed aspects
- She was in his life before
No doubt he was triangulating
So true.. and ditto on