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#1 Jul 15 - 5AM
Ruby
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Question -

Ok, as you all know, we excel at self blame. We have been manipulated into it. Or you have been, that seems quite obvious.
As for me, I still live in the self blame
because I know that I made mistakes.
What is your take on someone who
Posted many things on fb, under the guise of " teaching " others..
To make ten or more posts a day, every day,
of OTHER PEOPLES ( mostly Art )
And would thank each person individually
who commented on it, or even liked it.
I found that strange.
But then again, maybe it's just me and my insecurities
happening here.
Why though, would a so called busy " businessman "
spend so much time posting such things..
It was not his Art or whatever he would post.
In fact, he did not EVER post anything about himself
or his life. NEVER.
His private life on fb, seemed top secret.
No, he would only post other peoples things.
When I asked him, he said that he just likes Art
and would have his fb open while he was working
and would " make occasional posts "..
I guess that that is possible..
but I noticed also, the amount of women
who would " thank him profusely "
for posting such wonderful things..
Firstly, GET REAL people !
If you want to know something,
that is what they make google for..
are they incapable of looking for these things for
themselves ?
Also something else that I found odd,
were the posts that he would make
and write on them
" at the request of many friends "..
wtf ?
If I had his five thousand or so " friends "
contacting me and asking me to post this or that,
I would simply tell them to GOOGLE it.
Ok, again, maybe it's just me..
but really I found it abnormal,
when a " random friend "
would comment on one of his posts
with something like
" oh that is so beautiful. My flowers look just like that "
and he would reply
" please send some photos of your flowers "
Really, who gives a f*** ????
Or is it that I am really so insecure
and questioning of things that really aren't what I perceive them to be..

Jul 15 - 5PM
Deidre99
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It's time for you to stop

Jul 15 - 6PM (Reply to #13)
Ruby
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I agree.. throw it all in the

Jul 15 - 6PM (Reply to #14)
Deidre99
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I know. And I'm here to tell

Jul 15 - 7PM (Reply to #15)
Ruby
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Thanks..I know that I am not

Jul 15 - 5AM
Peeks
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I smell bullshit............

Jul 15 - 8AM (Reply to #2)
Ruby
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Well, there's not much chance

Jul 15 - 8AM (Reply to #3)
Peeks
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If a narc wants you back in his life

Jul 15 - 8AM (Reply to #4)
Ruby
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I was referring to OW.... the

Jul 15 - 10AM (Reply to #5)
Peeks
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Good for you !

Jul 15 - 11AM (Reply to #6)
Ruby
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The thing that I don't get

Jul 15 - 12PM (Reply to #11)
invisible
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I don't get it either

Jul 15 - 12PM (Reply to #7)
Peeks
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I think I may have missed aspects

Jul 15 - 12PM (Reply to #8)
Ruby
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- She was in his life before

Jul 15 - 1PM (Reply to #9)
Peeks
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No doubt he was triangulating

Jul 15 - 1PM (Reply to #10)
Ruby
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So true.. and ditto on