No Contact is so difficult

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#1 Jun 4 - 10AM
AngelaD
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No Contact is so difficult

It's been just one week since I found this forum and read about the importance of No Contact. I decided to start it on June 1. I ended up calling NH about divorce papers I received that day. It was a bad conversation because I kept it on the divorce only and because he was a jerk on the phone. I have not had any phone/text/email contact with him since. I drive past where he works to get to my work everyday. I know where the OW lives too. I couldn't resist driving past her house yesterday just to see what vehicles were there. Should I stay away from both of those places too, or is it okay? I feel like I kind of need to know what he is up to because when he is with her he leaves me alone.

I am a mess today. I want to hear his voice. I want what he promised we would have together, what I saw little glimpses of from time to time. I want the attention and fun that I imagine he is giving the OW these days. I know I'm having a weak moment, but this NC is really hard to do sometimes.

Jun 5 - 8AM
onwithmylife
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angela

Jun 4 - 11AM
Hunter
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If it was easy none of us

Jun 4 - 1PM (Reply to #15)
AngelaD
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I don't expect it to be easy,

Jun 5 - 7AM (Reply to #16)
Goldie
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Join our Support Group

Jun 4 - 11AM
phantom adoration
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NC is hard

Jun 4 - 1PM (Reply to #13)
AngelaD
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Just have to say...I filed

Jun 4 - 10AM
Janie53
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Angela

Jun 4 - 1PM (Reply to #11)
AngelaD
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I have been focusing on me,

Jun 4 - 10AM
Deidre99
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I'm sorry you're

Jun 4 - 10AM (Reply to #2)
AngelaD
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Thank you

Jun 4 - 11AM (Reply to #3)
Deidre99
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Please take this as I mean

Jun 4 - 1PM (Reply to #4)
AngelaD
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Thank you for the different

Jun 4 - 1PM (Reply to #5)
Deidre99
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Yes, it's very hard sometimes

Jun 5 - 9AM (Reply to #9)
AngelaD
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You are right, Deidre.

Jun 4 - 10PM (Reply to #8)
LindsayM
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You got it......

Jun 4 - 9PM (Reply to #6)
PrettyFlame
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AMEN Deidre!!! ...for you Angela

Jun 5 - 9AM (Reply to #7)
AngelaD
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PrettyFlame