Indifference

In reading through some threads these past few days, there's so many emotions that coincide with healing. Sadness at first. Shock. Humiliation. Anger. But, then...something beautiful happens when you stay NC for long enough...you grow indifferent. I remember YEARNING for this 'emotion' last year, and it finally came. I'd say I'm even beyond that now. If I were to bump into him today, it wouldn't hurt me or phase me. Wouldn't set me back. He is like a blur.

I still come here though because I want to pay it forward so to speak. I learned so much from all of you, and this valuable site. It is important we stick together, I think...even if we've healed.

I will say when you reach indifference...you will no longer care if:

* he's spreading lies about you
* thinks you're a liar
* thinks you're a whore
* texts you in a rage
* ignores you
* tries to stomp on your reputation

No matter what he might do...if he hoovers...you won't care. It's a great day when you get here. Keep at it, if you're still struggling with the first few days/weeks of NC. YOUR LIFE AWAITS YOU...IT GETS BETTER!

A life of your choosing, I should say, awaits you. :=)