Karma?

I'm not set in my beliefs on karma, I have no clue if it exists or not. However something really bad happened to my x while we were together and I kept telling him that a ha ha that its his karma a ha ha. Then about 3 weeks later, something really bad happened to me and I felt like shit for being as evil as he is, for enjoying his suffering.So I chalked it up to my karma for enjoying and relishing in his pain and suffering. Could all be random, but who knows right? Anything is possible I suppose. But if you believe in it then yes he got karma, but then so did I for enjoying it.

The story is a good example of Karma (for all involved parties) and of how a narc operates and never changes his pattern over the years. This guy's pattern is long-term marriages while having an affair with the next potential wife, then dumping her as illness strikes. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2088692/Newt-Gingrich-affair-Ex-wife-Marianne-reveals-wanted-open-marriage.html

I call karma consequences. I brought about my own consequences by being truthful, living in the light so to speak. I forgive N. I know he won't have karma or consequences for what he intentionally set out to do to our family, BUT I let him into our family, MY responsibility to make amends the best I can for my role. So I don't wish for karma I wish for a miracle instead. I wish him and his family peace and contentment, so he never has to keep searching for it and then he has no need to inflict pain on anymore people. I know that his family blame me. They didn't want to know the truth on any level. They would like to see me dead. They even said it. So that's what we are dealing with here. Pure hatred. No wonder there are so many people living in turmoil...just so sad and such a waste.

comes around like a hula hoop... -Lil Wayne Yes. The OW got hers. She knew I was his GF of a year. She was married and she works with me. She was sleeping with him for one year and still is. Her husband found out and filed for divorce. She has to pay him child support because she was the bread winner and her reputation is shit in town as the cheater nurse practitioner. HE got a new GF as soon as she became single and still sees her on the side with his entourage and now she is single with two kids who are distraught about the divorce. I guess she thought he would be with her once she was single. That's out! Think again, LIL MAMMA....Karma is a bitch. Live well...do not seek revenge... It all comes back around. What am I crying about this POS for????? I ask myself this daily and him having the affair wasn't the worst that he's done to me.... Good grief...

I would never seek revenge either, which means I wouldn't do something deliberately to cause him trouble or hurt him in any way (as if this would be possible...). But I have wished for the most terrible things to happen to him :( Believe me you would be surprised at how cruel my thoughts were. And I don't feel proud of myself, even though I was in great pain when I had those thoughts.... If any of these wishes came true, God, that would be horrible... and this would be a burden for me...So, be careful what you wish for. I agree with agnes when she says karma = bringing upon oneself the inevitable consequences of one's actions. What you give is what you get. For me, at this point and after a month of no contact, not knowing and not wanting to know anything about him works best.

karma = bringing upon oneself the inevitable consequences of one's actions. A true N never finds himself responsible for anything. Even when caught & unmasked . . . NOPE! - N puts a 'spin' on the situation for his own advantage. A true N never has remorse or regret because he has no conscience or slef-awareness. A true N may realize that one cash cow was more flush with cash than the present cow. But, that realization will perhaps cause N to wander into a new pasture to seek yet another cash cow. Ns really are not 'attached' to the people. Others are merely a means to an end. However, sometimes there is satisfaction in knowing that those who surround N are beginning to realize that there may be something wrong with this guy. But, honestly, most people do not want to be involved. So, this is why one merely has to move on. Cut the losses & move on.

understanding and realization about karma and the disordered ones. The karmic "payback" I'm getting is when something wonderful happens to me. And this has happened several times. When I am touched lovingly by a non-disordered person. When I am laughing from deep inside my gut because I'm so joyous and happy. When I get a compliment from a stranger...it's how I view karma now. Each and every time something outstanding happens in my life, I say a little prayer of gratitude and I actually smile thinking "see you sick SOB! My life is GREAT...better than it ever was when you were in it...that's MY PAYBACK!" Disordered Freak Boy's Karmic payback is that he will never, ever get to interact, speak with or touch me in any way, shape or form again. That's satisfaction enough for me. Most sincerely, (not) spinning. FREAK BOY TRIED REALLY HARD BUT HE DIDN'T TAKE ME DOWN

I find no comfort in my karma story........... My husband left me for the OW, I told him that they have no moral compass, and nothing good could ever come to them because of their selfish hurtful actions. I pictured them riding off into the sunset, loving life, while I was left to pick up the shattered pieces of mine. Not only the divorce, packing up the house, finding a new place to live, etc.......I had said out loud that I hope they suffer as I do. I wanted them to feel my pain. It wasn't fair that they be so happy and my life be turned upside down. Two months after he left, she was diagnosed with aggressive breast cancer, had 5 surgeries in 16 months, including a double mastectomy. I did not wish this on her, my heart actually bleeds for her. No one should suffer in that manner. I lost one of my dearest friends to breast cancer and would never wish this on anyone, not even my worst enemy. The suffering I had hoped for, was heartbreak, the relationship not working, and them feeling the emotional pain that I felt. I never wanted this for her. I pray every day that she has a full recovery. I no longer wish for them to suffer emotionally. It's no longer important to me. My pain is over, I no longer suffer, and I don't need them to either. Indifference. My point being, yes, karma exists........but be careful what you wish for, because sometimes you get way more than you bargained for. Everything happens for a reason, and we have to trust our course, not fight it, ride the wave and see where it takes us. Everything always works out in the end, we don't need "revenge" to make things better. Everything takes care of itself is what I am trying to say.

My Ex N lost a really good job two years ago because of his drinking. He will never be able to get another real job because he still drinks heavily daily... But, now he farms for a living and makes a whole lot less and has no insurance. But, he has a plan, the farmer that he works for is not marriend and has no children or siblings... So, the Narc has a plan to inherit this farm.. They get their karma, but they always seem to bounce back! And, this didn't change is ways at all... He is still a evil, lying, cheating piece of poop... lol...