Did any of you try to warn the OW when you were discarded?
Did any of you try to warn the OW when you were discarded?
I am curious to know if anyone did this? After two months of being broke up I tried to warn the OW this weekend when he put his Match profile back up looking for women in another town that he works in. Wrong move. She was not even phased. Even after professing to her friends that she was falling in love. Am I in the Twilight Zone? She told me that I need to grieve. WTF?
What I will say, and already know that it is obvious, is that I need to fully let go and move on NOW. This is not healthy. I am NOT proud of myself or my actions. I don't want to go back with him, but if I am even monitoring than I am not moving on. Why aren't I moving on? On the outside he is everything that I want, but on the inside I think that he is just plain evil and I know without a doubt that he is a serious somatic narcissist.
Very angry with myself and I know that I am going through the anger phase in general. I know it is not healthy, but I want to see the both of them emotionally hurt (that would only be possible for her though, not him). I never want to go back to being where I was two months ago (walking on egg shells, hot/cold treatments, silent treatments, multiple OW for almost two years!) and instead I just lowered myself today.
So today begins strict NO CONTACT and I urge everyone here to do the same. It is not worth losing our dignity over and we will NOT get the justification we are looking for. Time takes care of everything and karma also takes time.
no point on warning new supply/OW
wannaletgo22 you are probably right.
zzcem
zzcem
At that point I hadn't really
Surprisingly it seems that she did
Whoa!
I did
I wrote her an email....very
OW
Same here....
Redhead they are the most
Bgirl
the discarded vs the future discard
yup
zzcem..don't be so hard on yourself
FeFe
I was warned....I didnt
Hmmmm