woollifted's story
woollifted's story
I was always his 'princess'
I am new here so hello to you all. I would like to start by listing some of the things he did so please excuse me if it is quite long winded as it will help me 'get it out' so to speak. I have been narc free for nearly one month and it is the first time in 3.5 years that I have finally had the confidence to walk away. That's not to say that the last month I have not heard from my narc. Oh no, he contacted me continually until I changed my number. Also told he had tried to commit suicide 3 times since I stopped talking to him...uh huh..
Anyway. Here is a selection of his behavior at his worst:
* Told me he was a stock broker when we met. He was not
* Put on a suit everyday and pretended to go to work for 8 months! When I finally became suspicious as to why he never socialised with work he drove one hour away to a bar and as soon as we arrived told me they had left! Found out shorty after he was on job seekers allowance and no, I still do not know where he was getting his money from.
*He would talk in depth about his sexual conquests and when we began dating he would leave me at the bar to pick up women with his friend. If a guy came over to me at that point he would run over and start shouting abuse at the guy.
*Asked me to open a bank account for him to put money into. He then took all my overdraft without telling me (I did get it back after throwing a huge tantrum)
*Appeared on EVERY SINGLE night out that I ever went out without him. Sometimes he would watch for a while before coming over and ruining my night.
*On nights out with him he would pretend to go to the bathroom and then hide behind the pillar and as soon as a guy came over he would run out screaming abuse.
*He would get everyone of my family members drunk so he could question them and use whatever they said as future ammo.
*Cried and I mean balled his eyes out whenever he got caught in some of his most outrageous lies
*Booked a holiday with the boys to Mexico. I didn't believe him as before he went he was looking up the price of hookers for Vegas. He sent me fake flight details and photos. I only found out when I broke into his facebook and found he did go to Vegas and he did sleep with a married woman and everything else that moved.
*When we were living in Sydney and I found out about Vegas and dumped him he pretended to go back to the UK and again send me flight documents. He actually hid in his house for the week and text me form a UK number so there would be a time difference!
*Slept with hookers. Once we were walking down Kings Cross in Sydney and a hooker comes walking down the road. He flung me into to the nearest coffee shop and when we came back out she hadn't walked past yet so he flung me in the pharmacy. He was so nervous that I knew then that he had been sleeping with everything.
*He had terrible recognition skills and he once came on to a friend that I worked with. When she said that she worked with me he said he didn't know what she was talking about. Needless to say when she told me he was trying to grab her arse I was highly embarrassed.
*He stalked me everyday in Sydney until out of loneliness I went back to him!
*After 2 weeks of dating he told me he loved me. After 3 weeks he was going to marry me. He proposed so many times that I have lost count. He never had a ring. He also wanted me pregnant as soon as possible.
*As soon as I was back with him he didn't want me. As soon as I left him he wanted me.
*Would always ask if his d*ck was the best, his body etc. Would tell me I could never do better and that even if I left and married someone else I would always want to f*ck him.
*One night in Sydney he went out and came back at 2am screaming that he had been locked up in a cell for fighting. I didn't believe him and it turns out he had taken 2 girls that were staying at the lodge out for drinks with his work mates while he had left me at home!
*Every time we went out he needed to be centre of attention. He used to shout, scream, cause fights, buy all the drinks for everyone to show his wealth (which he didn't have). Every time he got home he would punch the walls (luckily never me)
*He would call me 30 times a day. Even more if I did not answer. If I didn't answer he would always say 'If you don't answer princess I will be so worried I will have to come to the flat' Of course it was control.
*I had no friends when I was with him and any friends I did have he hated! He would also say to them in front of me 'If I wasn't with Amy I would so be with you' When I confronted him he said he was just trying to make them feel better.
*He would always treat me to food and dinners and then push me to eat his. He always tried to force me to eat. Perhaps he wanted me to put on weight?
*After one night out and an argument he slashed up his wrists. Not deep of course. He just wanted to stop me from leaving
*He also carved an A in his face with a knife
*He made so many promises and broke everyone of them.
*He read my diaries
*He continually checked my phone. Broke into emails
*Threatened to kill me if I left
*Said he had a job interview for Goldman Sachs. He hadn't. Then again pretended to work and I had to ring the office and of course they had never heard of him.
*Joined a dating site when we were together. When confronted as I has the bill from the bank he said that someone had used his card!
*He would change personalities to suit the person he was with. It was truly bizarre watching him change his mannerisms, his voice, everything!
*He pretended to be multiple people and sometimes he would text me from different sim cards pretending to be other men to see if I would 'admit' to being unfaithful! Recently as I had cut contact he text-ed me pretending to be a recruiter offering me a job under a totally different name.
*Said his ex had died in a car crash. When I looked at him and said 'what, have you been having sex with her and now your afraid I might find out so you prefer to tell me she is dead?' He looked so shocked and even then had the cheek to smirk
*Told me he had cancer when he didn't
*Slept with a friend of mine for 3 weeks behind my back
* Said that he had sold his soul to the devil and he couldn't wait to go to hell and if I went to heaven he would come up there and drag me down with him
* Recently as I was ignoring him he came into my hall way as he waits until people leave the house to get in and started hoovering my landing so he wouldn't be thrown out.
Anyway. I think that's enough. There is so much but I don't want to go on too much. Why did I stay? Scared I guess but everyday I get stronger. I was missing him (I know I have been brainwashed) but after writing this I feel much better.
Thank you for reading! xxx
wow!
sorry for ur experience..wool lifted
Wow
wool lifted, keep this list handy
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This man is a sociopath..