Hoovering through my children
Hoovering through my children
I am healing
It has been very slow for me. I do not let go easily.
I am now nc for over 4 months but had messed around for over a year. He left after 14 years marriage 20 months ago.
He is now hoovering through my children. They come back saying dad still loves me and would come back if I'd let him. My children are getting angry with me that I won't talk to him to try and sort things out. They are too young to understand that he is with ow and that is unacceptable.
I did say that he had a new partner now and my son said that I should have him back and let him stay friends with ow.
Such innocence.
My nc protects me. I don't want to be crazy again. But I don't want my children to hate me. It feels unfair.
Any advice would be great
I won't break nc though...no matter what
This guy is such a piece of
My ex did the samething, used the kids.
It is a shame when one has to
sparrow
My children are 12 and 11. I
A therapist for the children,
We go to therapybtogether and
good for you!
That is so good to hear
Jelickuk
That means a lot Hunter.
Nomoredenial, that is a very
yes they are
How hold are your kids? I am