For those of you who want to 'educate' or contact the OW or former 'wife'
For those of you who want to 'educate' or contact the OW or former 'wife'
For those of you going through recovery from a 'relationship' with a N or psychopath..the tendency is to want to contact the OW or former wife to let them know of all the scamming and cheating they are and to educate them of what they did to you..to set the record straight, or inform them of what is going on.
I would advise that this is dangerous. The N and psychopath are dangerous, hideous. You will never win with them. There will be no closure in the relationship, there will be no rational understanding or mutual agreement. There just won't. You just pick up and move on.
However I know for many people, they want to contact the OW, or stay in touch with them through facebook or something to watch them, and their progress, to see what is happening,,if they have 'changed' etc...
It is not worth it. It will get you no where, and it is just perpetuating your misery.
The N/Psychopath will make up calculated lies to ALL their targets. Don't seek to udnerstand them, see to be protected from them.
Restrain yourself from wanting to contact them. Get your support and confidence from somewhere else.
Not a good idea
Amazed
Good for you Jen79
jen
I agree. Unless u are already
Amazed. Agree!
Hermes, Escape from the trap, they laught at ALL their vicitms
She's my neighbor
Do not try to figure them out...
Favorite toy in the toy box
Amen