Was your N good looking?
Was your N good looking?
I read in that book "Splitting" (about divorcing a narcissist or borderline) that Narcissists as a group are good looking. I wondered how that could be true unless something about being good looking contributes to developing that particular personality disorder, and I had never seen that listed as a contributing factor.
So...was your N better-than-average looking?
Mine wasn't, though he'd probably beg to differ, lol. One time I said something about his surfing so much and he said something about it being good for him and I said yes, but shouldn't be done to the exclusion of other things (like work) and he paused and said "But LOOK at me!" I was honestly stumped - I didn't know what he meant. Now I think he was secretly vain. I mean I know he is a Narcissist but in his case if it hadn't been for that very revealing comment I wouldn't have thought he had such a high opinion of his looks.
Not at all
Good looking
mine is ugly now
ugly over time
good looks
A Narc's looks
My Narc was ugly as hell,
Funny you should say that Warrior, about the quotes
Yes!
Mine is okay looking. He was
Not at first
cmae1
my Narc started to become much more ugly
Cynthia!
neck upwards
Ending the dance
Re: Was he good looking
same here when I think of it
Yes, very rugged - soft baby
yes yes
mine is gorgeous! works out
hoping
quietude
I think so
Absolutely not!
My narc was good looking and
Scoop
Shakes,,OMG i get that too!!
Fear
good looking
cynthia