Hard time getting to NC
Hard time getting to NC
Hi ladies... I need some advice/encouragement/hit upside the head - anything! - to get this NC thing to sink in...
It's been about 6 weeks since we broke up. I was getting stronger over a few weeks and then went on a trip - complete trigger for me. I sent him a text. He texted and called that week. Gradually, it worked it's way back to last week talking every day, talked about getting together for dinner, etc.
I told him I needed to see action on his part before I would meet up with him because I know he won't do anything - it's a GAME! It's this struggle that over the last week has been playing out of whose going to give in first?
I ignored his call Saturday - and last night, stupidly, I called him back. He got annoyed/angry, said he wrote me off because I didn't call back right away. I apologized, he said he would call on Wednesday when he got back in town.
I know he manipulated the conversation, I have blocked his calls and texts, but I just feel like I goaded him into saying he would call and if I ignore him now, I feel guilty. As I write this, I know it's so stupid/not normal!
I don't want to feel guilty about this. Why is this so hard??
Wow - I needed these thoughts tonight!
ladies you are the best!!
You have to move past feeling
NC
It is so hard because these
Bumblebee, this time you
Narcs don't accept logic
Your narc has
Sparrow
Glad to hear it!
I second what sparrow has said
"Not wanting to end the party
Thanks
Block his number right
What is mr number. I'm
Syren
Good post Tigerlily
Bumblebee---NC