when will the obsession go away
when will the obsession go away
Im new here. I need some reassurance. My friends dont understand why I can think of nothing else but this loser or why I can't move on. My narcissist discarded me 6mo ago after I told him he needed to go into drug rehab. I told him I couldnt keep enabling him and the next thing I knew he wouldn't speak to me or acknowledge a text or phone call. I was a basket case. I begged, pleaded,but he wouldnt respond. I finally texted him, told him I hated his guts and never to contact me again. I was finished this time. I guess he sensed it. Soon after he would call my phone,let it ering once and hang up.....or send a text that was blank. He eventually started leaving voice mails acting like nothing had ever happened. I tried my best to ignore them. The more I ignored the more desperate he became...sent me pictures of hearts, texts 4saying I love you. Teddy bear pictures....i could not believe this he never showed any lovey dovey feelings before. But I had never ignored him before either. I caved and responded. I said I was very hurt and angry and that I just "needed time to cool off" ughhhh, I see now that was supply! This was 5 days ago. Havent heard another peep. I suppose he thought fine,she won't talk to me then I will show her and disappear! His favorite weapon is the silent treatment, acting as if I do not exist. He never insults me or rants,its Always the silent treatment. What is he thinking right now? Will he reappear? Im so sick of this cycle but I feel like I am addicted to him. How can I love someone who cares nothing for me? Ive always gone running back after every discard...i know he must wonder why I didnt this time. I need to be strong but I miss this idiot. Im torn up and cant think of anything but him. This has been going on for 2yrs now. I feel like I still love him,how sick I am. Has he gone away now or will he come back to try to finish me off? im exhausted and hurting.
I'm past the 1 year break up...
Wow, you definitely know
Really a great and insightful
i think we go back because we
Yes yes and yes. I found
I KNOW he lacks courage...
I am so grateful for all of
Ugh, yes. They only want you
Welcome and please be
Journey on...
Thank u
I used to and still get that sometimes
We all want justice in the
That makes me feel better, Syren :)
I got the silent treatment
Hi VNM
You friends won't and can't
Re: friends can't understand
Obsession is a crzy feeling.
Oh dear...
Welcome to Narcville.. NC ..
I agree...
Yah, well with one word of
fair enough
I'm beginning to think I have