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Don't be fooled, the NARC'S are setting up their "Winter Nests."

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#1 Oct 14 - 1PM
Goldie
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Don't be fooled, the NARC'S are setting up their "Winter Nests."

With so many members breaking No Contact lately I had to look at this and see what was up and then it hit me, of course, Winter and the Holiday's are approaching and this happens every year at this time.

THE PRE HOLIDAY SEASON HOOVER, they are putting out their feelers to see if you are going to bite and they like to get a fresh early start just in case you say NO, so they can work on some of the others in time for the cold Winter Holiday months.

So please beware and be forewarned, this is not happening because they love you so much; this is happening because there are slim pickings in the Winter AND they like to hook up with the ones who are still stuck on them for the Holiday Season because most Narcs have burned so many bridgew, they get "lonely" during the Holiday's.

The Narc's are just setting up their "Winter Sexfest Nests." "Their reliable "ole Mummy Supply." Someone will cook for them and keep them warm during the cold "dry" months. The Summer is over and they know it is more difficult to secure supply in the Winter, when everyone is home more, so they start sniffing around for old supply, this happens every fall and then come Springtime they begin the Degrade & Discard so that they will be free to roam around freely next Summer.

And of course the Holiday season is approaching and they want to be hooked up with "secure" "family" "Madonna" type supply who really love them for the Holiday's and then when the Summer is approaching they want their partygirls/badboys back.

They are transparent sorry to see so many of the members falling for this crapola.

Narcs are notorious for contacting old supply as the Holiday Season approaches. Whether you are the wife/husband, the OW, the sex buddy, they make changes this time of years, so beware.

The one's who do not like the Holidays will be looking for an exit plan from Holiday obligations and may seek Other Woman/man, the one's who get off on playing the big shot around the Holidays and are looking for their Winter Nests, will contact the Home base type of supply.

PLEASE!!! Don't be fooled, they will hurt you again, and dump you like a hot potato once they have you back in their clutches and remember they PLAY on your sentimentality and this is the time of year when it reaches a PEAK for all of us.

Together and Healing,
Goldie

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Apr 28 - 8PM
sweethabanero
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My XN is the opposite

Apr 24 - 3PM
jjnn4
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I fell for it once, never again!

Jovana

Jan 29 - 7PM
Timetofaceit
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Ohhh yes he did the hoovering act.

Timetofaceit

Dec 4 - 4PM
Goldie
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The narcissist is setting up his winter nest

Dec 4 - 3PM
Goldie
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The narcissist is setting up his winter nest

Dec 11 - 6PM
omgalso
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re his Winter Nest

Nov 26 - 4PM
Goldie
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Xo

Dec 21 - 11AM
Goldie
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The Hoover is not a compliment

Dec 22 - 7AM (Reply to #130)
Janie53
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Bump, Goldie!

Dec 21 - 12PM (Reply to #127)
Goldie
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Beware of the narc attack; A Narcissists Revenge

Dec 21 - 4PM (Reply to #128)
gigikins
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why does he keep trying to hurt me?

Dec 22 - 12PM (Reply to #129)
Strawberry (not verified)
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Ex Narc and money

Sep 30 - 3PM
Emerald11
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Ah, yes. My N did like to

Sep 30 - 10AM
Hunter
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Bump

Dec 17 - 6PM
foreverfun1
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yup

Dec 19 - 4PM (Reply to #117)
Goldie
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YES, they hoover this time of year; what is the BIG surprise?

Apr 17 - 9PM (Reply to #119)
SunnySideUp
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Flashbacks..

Apr 18 - 11AM (Reply to #122)
BlairoRoberto
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*Cheers!*

Apr 18 - 12PM (Reply to #123)
SunnySideUp
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*Cheers* back :)

Apr 18 - 10AM (Reply to #120)
ItsFinallytime
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Welcome, SunnySudeUp and

Apr 18 - 11AM (Reply to #121)
SunnySideUp
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Thank you, ItsFinallytime!

Dec 22 - 12PM (Reply to #118)
Strawberry (not verified)
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Surprise

Dec 6 - 2PM
Goldie
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This is the time of the year......

Dec 9 - 6AM (Reply to #110)
indifferent
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This is why I find Christmas so full of hypocrisy!!

Dec 28 - 3AM (Reply to #115)
CLBlues
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Bah Humbug

Dec 9 - 6AM (Reply to #111)
Goldie
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Yes, I hear you Indiffernt

Dec 23 - 10AM (Reply to #114)
RiseAbove
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Making a difference

Dec 9 - 7AM (Reply to #112)
indifferent
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Kill them with kindness!!!

Dec 17 - 4AM (Reply to #113)
Goldie
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THANK YOU SO MUCH Indifferent

Dec 7 - 4AM (Reply to #106)
Belle de jour
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Hi Goldie,