Load of crap!

They have toilet paper on a blue light special.. Hunter

My xN said that he didn't trust anyone, yet he wasn't trustworthy. He said "I have no reason to lie to you", yet he ALWAYS lied to me. He said "I don't like cheaters and whores", yet HE was a cheater and a whore. I wonder what he thinks when he looks in the mirror. Probably, "damn, I'm perfect!"

So true Sparrow! And mine used to say he doesn't trust anyone! And I said to him "Do you trust yourself?" He looked at me, hesitated and said yes. Ha! They are the epitomy of untrust and that is why they trust no one. I know he had contempt for me when I asked him that but I didn't care. I got so tired of him always creeping around, being myserious, sneaking around, only communicating with me through informational soundbites. Never good conversations. He used to drop a one line comment to me and if I tried to turn it into a discussion he ignored me or God forbid if I didn't agree with something he said. It was all over!

The takeaway too is that…why can’t they count on anyone? Haha Because they DRIVE EVERYONE AWAY! They act like people are not dependable. No. They are such psychos that people flee from them. And then they play the victim. Poor me…everyone leaves me. I’m soooo dependable, but no one else is around me. Hmmm. I told my ex…dude, you’re the common denominator of all your failed relationships and marriages. He didn’t like that.

My name is Ian and my ex girlfriend was a NARC. like everyone on this site i was nothin but a kind caring boyfriend when i think the horrible things she used to say me she must of hated me. last thing she said to me on the phone was our relationship was only casual and i'm a maneater 6 weeks previous i had taken her to portugal and PAID for everything took about kicking you when your down

I got a *heartfelt* letter in the mail this weekend. Including these little gems... I told you long ago that I could always see myself coming back to you. I am ready now, if you'll have me. It wasn't that I didn't respect you, I didn't respect myself. I am sorry for everything. I am tired of living without my best friend. I know now that you weren't just a rebound. I want our Sundays back. I know you don't want to hear from me but I miss you. I am lonely. You are the only one that truly understands me. I, I, I, I, I, I, I. I don't believe one single word of it. Out with the trash, along with everything else that serves me no purpose. I am sure he found another *best friend* over the weekend. I must say, the effort of actually mailing a handwritten letter was a good try... And yeah, I love that he is now as pathetic as I once was. Xoxo

Oh man, he is good! Translating from Narcspeak, here's what he's REALLY saying: "I've destroyed every relationship I've been in, but I'm not willing to take any responsibility for that. It's much easier for me to blame the people I drove away and -- as a bonus -- I'm more likely to tap into your empathy if you think I was the victim. You seem like the type who will fall for this hook line and sinker and work very hard at putting up with every piece of crap I throw at you just to prove I can count on you."