Been looking for my ex narc's ex....
Been looking for my ex narc's ex....
Even after reading about narcissm for about 2 weeks now and becoming a member of this site, for some reason I keep blaming myself for how he treated me. Last night I got on facebook and found his ex ( i also found her on a people search site). I thought I was looking for his current wife (yes he's married, but has maintained from the beginning he is separated) but I found this woman, the mother of his 2 oldest children, who apparently once had his last name. He told me he was only married once so i'm not sure what that is about. Anyway, I fought with myself not to contact this woman and I did not. I guess I just want to know if he was the same narcisstic bastard as he was to me... Its like I need convincing that he is the person I have found him out to be and if I know he was this way with someone else I will know it was not my fault... Its hard because it seems like everybody loves him and i'm the only one that gets this ugly behavior from him. I have never seen him be mean to anyone but me....
I understand
Absolutely! You have no idea
Thank you everyone...
How did he treat ME?
Meik
I have thought about this a LOT
I know you are looking for
OMG. . Why its all the
meik, when I was
spinning
Good advice
I have spent some time