What does it mean.. help
What does it mean.. help
So my ex N broke up with me 1 year ago and has checked up on me every few months (whenever he would it was very obvious I still missed him and wanted him) So I think that made him realize he still had supply from me and my control..(and he got suppy)
So this summer I really got to know myself and spent so much time with my friends and kind of forgot about the pain and dependecny I had in the past with our relationship. I think he could tell I was moving on with my life, happier, doing more things, smiling more, not contacting him at all, etc.. So near the end of summer he contacted a few times.
He liked a photo of me, asked on FB how my summer was going and what I have been up to (I replied to that), he texted me 3 times, and FB chatted twice
All of these times I was short, nice, but unavailable...
which made him contact me more and more (which I liked)
because in the past if he contacted me to see if he had control and he found out he DID, then he was satisfied... THIS TIME, I wanted him to know he doesnt have my control... (I secrelty do want him to want me again)
So here is the problem.. I'm afraid that he is DONE. Last time he contacted me he was saying the single life wasnt really his thing and he doesnt hookup with girls, that he wanted to see me again... I was like "im tired, goodnight and I will probably be busy.."
SO, since then (2 weeks ago) he has been silent.. SO now im sad because I was just trying to NOT GIVE HIM INFORMATION SO HE WILL HAVE TO ACTUALLY TRY HARDER....
Now I feel like texting him and telling him I am not as busy now and would like the thing he wanted to give me... Just so he knows I am not a bitch and I will be civil.. But then I will be unavailable again..
I dont want to think he gave up trying to contact me and stuff or that I hurt his pride... :/
College Girl...I admire you
We weren't always strong.
Dear College Girl
College girl, don't go. Now
SUNAFTERRAIN
I think I am an inverted
CG
This is not true that we do not accept inverted narcissists here
For some of us the pain of
college-girl
A couple of things come to mind for me while reading this post.
Ummm ... This makes no sense,
I am concerned that you are
I'm confused here.
nevermind.. Let me just say
Your comments are confusing!!
Hunter
CG, I hope you can understand
spinning
This is what they do College Girl
Holy Moly....
Denial
Hoovering happens after you